What's wrong with me?

Ok. A few days ago, my boyfriend broke up with me and I was so breakbroken. I haven't stopped crying since. I haven't eaten anything either. I just can't believe that he would break up with me 4 days before my birthday. I say that I feel like dying even though I know that I could never kill myself. Is all this normal?

Yep. You'll get over it.

Normal, common, and usually temporary around your age.

//Ari\\

You will get over it.. we all go through the same.. don't worry

Did he know it was your birthday...?

wow...yeah...that's pretty shitty...

ah, young love...le sigh

I have had that same thing happen to me but what u need to do is eat u dont wanna not eat trust me that will make things worse and feeling like your going to die is a typical feeling for people your age

Something like that happened to me. It was a week before valentines day and she broke up with me. I went crazy and i cried almost everynight. (prolly sounds funny commin from a guy). But trust me when i say that you'll get over it. Its gonan be hard but eventualy it will happen. It took me almost 2 months for me to get over her. But here is a tip. Try to avoid cutting yourself, it does a lot more bad then good. I hope things work out for you.

Maybe he didnt want to spend any money on your present??? lol

I know there is Bob LMAO

I like to see the lighter sides of situations...single birthday bashes can be a blast :o)

umm yeah this would be completly normal! Some people dont eat when there sad and Ive cried myself to sleep for the last 2 weeks and there is nothing wrong with crying!!!!!!

young love, yeah, I know how you feel, I got broken up with on my way to chicago. I know how you feel. you will get over it. Try to eat though, i made the mistake of not doing that, and the whole way to chicago i was sick and then he broke up with me, on the way down there

if he broke up with you that close to your birthday , i realy dont think he is worth all of this fuss over

my bf just split up with me too, i am not eating much or sleeping well, i know how you feel! but i also agree with what others are saying, things will get easier and i know its the last thing you need or want to hear, and i know that you cant believe it right now, but it is true.

sounds normal to me....its sucks how normal things hurt so much but trsut me youll be fine as long as you sleep on the thoughts you have....you will get through this

XoX 2moroNEVAcame

Yes love, this is completely normal, especially in teenage years. As corny as it sounds, you jus have to give it time, and then he won't mean as much to you anymore. Rebonding won't help you, just be single for a while, go out a lot with friends and stay busy. Boys are idiots when their teenagers (no offense) and real dating almost only works later in life once they've grown up a bit. Girls want these mature romanitic guys, but honestly the guys aren't there yet. I mean think about all the high school girls who date college guys? I know it kills, and honestly love it will for a while, but you will make it though and best of all you will be stronger because of it.

-Tainted Mikochan

wow! my boyfriend split up with me exactly 4days b4 my birthday too! wat a coincidence. but it was 2years ago lol, so not that upsetting anymore. i didnt eat, cudnt go out the house and had no will 2 do anything for ages. ive onli just properly got over him now. but if you just get out there, chill with your friends and get bak into a normal routeen again its ok. ull probably realise that hes a bit of a mong anyway in a few months or so. lol. but try and be happy :) and who knows sum1 better cud come along any moment

i was dating this girl and i was really n love with her. actually we were engaged to be married but she broke up with me on the day of our one year anniversary. but its all good.

ya i think thats normal to happy now you can party and have a good time on your birthday now!!

yeah, its normal.. i went through the same thing.