I don't know what to do im still sooo in love with him

my boyfriend broke up with me like 3 days ago and i still cant get over the fact that he did cause me and him were sooo close and everyone thought that we were like perfect for eachother and he even told me that he loved me and that he cared about me and all that and then a few days after that he told me it was over.... and now one of my guy friends wants to go out with me and he knows how into my old boyfriend i am cause he knows how much i loved him and everything but he still like wants to go out with me but i told him im not ready and he said that he understands why i dont wanna go out with anyone right now but he seems like he really doesnt and is just telling me that so i dont feel bad or something!! WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????????

Heya, well the same sort of thing has happened to me recently. I think you should just make it clear to your guy friend that wants to go out with you that you really don't want to right now, and ask your ex why he dumped you if he said he loves you? Sorry I can't really help.

And to Bob ^ yes, education is important and of course learning to be responsible is. But that doesn't mean having a boyfriend will necessarily get in the way of that. We all make mistakes which we eventually learn from, it's just about getting the balance right between having a boyfriend/social life and concentrating on education.

- Polly

Megan, I think that you should just tell your guy friend that you need more time to think about everything that had happened and maybe he can help you think things over but i think you should wait a lil while and try to make things work and get better for you the way things are.