i'm in a real mess

  • Yazdan
    18 years ago

    Hi my name is Yazdan and i've got myself in a a really bad mess. Well i love this girl but the problem is that she already has a boyfriend. She knows i love her because i have a hard time hiding things like that and if you check my featured poem then you can get a rough idea about how much i love her. But anyways, she's been with her bf for almost a year and they seem pretty happy and i don't really want anything to happen to them because it would hurt her. But at the same time i want them to break up. So really my two options are to wait for something to happen, or try to get over her. HELP!!

  • cynthia
    18 years ago

    well in my opinion you tell me she is happy well that seems she loves her boyfriend so much well just think about it does she feel the same about you ok dont messthat love up just think ok and try your best to forget about her

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Get over her

    Give your love to someone who is capable of returning it or get used to depression and being hurt.

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    You got to get over her. If she's happy, it might be a long time before she splits with her current boyfriend, and even then who's to say how she will feel about you. Just find somebody new, you'll feel better.

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    Try to get over her...I doubt that your in love you're only 15...and at 15 you dont have the mind span to even think of love....I used to think just because I was with a guy or like him....I thought I was in love...Well the truth is I was in love with the thought that I could fall in love...Try to move on as I said you're 15 you have many more chanes...

    Emma

  • Latoya
    18 years ago

    well all that i can say is that if you love her there is nothing you can do about it but then there is the proble that she has a boyfriend, but if you trulty love her you will let her be wiht him. because the more you say u love her the more it is going to hurt. but if she loved you in that way she will tyr to get wth you.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    I have to agree with the above ^^ If you love her as much as you say you do, then let her go.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Turn the negative into a positive, think of it not as a loss but as an opening for some new, special and more worthy of your time, energy and love :O)

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    Here's what I suggest: Get over her. Seriously, you may love her, but just think you are only 15. You have an entire lifetime ahead of you to find your true love. And if she's been with her boyfriend already for almost a year, then she probably really likes him and he makes her happy. So if you really love her, let her be happy. Let go of your obsession over her. And if it's meant to be, it'll happen. Just give it time. And get over her in the mean time. If she wanted to be with you, then she wouldn't be with her boyfriend still. Just remember that. anyway, sorry for being so blunt, but that's my advice.

    ~BJ~

  • đαy đяэαmэя......
    18 years ago

    Is she worth waiting for??? if so then wait, if not then move on....... it's tough when you have strong feelings for a person..

  • swill
    18 years ago

    true love means u want her to be happy....which means you shud not want her to break up...so its not true love lol...thats hollywood philosophy i like it