Best Friends Boyfriend is a jerk....

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    Alright so my best friends boyfriend, is well, different. He's kind of annoying and can be a complete jerk. Anyways I try to ignore these things because she really cares about him (they've been dating for 4 months).

    Anywyas, today i'm pretty sure he was talking about me while I was RIGHT THERE. This guy friend sat down next to me and there was only a few people around at school, and he (as in her boyfriend) was like "Jay, u like her dont u" and he didnt really say anything and hes like "like a friend or whatever" and Jay was like "yeah, I'm nice to everyone, I'm a nice guy" And her boyfriend just laughed at him was like thats sick man. And then after that me and Jay were joking around and he just looked over at Jay and started laughing....

    Now dont get me wrong, he mite not of been talking about me, but it sure seems like he was. I dont really wanna say anything to my friend, but he's being a complete idiot. How do I deal with this, should I just ignore him??

    My friend is pretty much inseperable from him as well, she pretty much ditched me after school just to hang out with him today as well. Take into consideration, me and her havent really hung out much since they started dating. I really dont wanna say anything to her about it, but I do miss her coming out with us girls and hanging out. Is there anything I can say to kind of hint that she never really spends time with her friends anymore?

    Anyways I guess there is kind of two things in here that I need advice on.... anything at all would help out ALOT.

    Thanks:)

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Well arent you glad he's with your friend and not you, think yourself lucky

    Dont be so uptight as long as hes making her happy and treating her well accept him and deal with it - that what friendships about. If you dont like the way he speaks to you say something diplomatically to him infront of her "I really dont appreciate you speaking to me like that" kinda phrase...he's bound to get the message if you make it clear but dont make it more difficult for yourself or your friend.

    Maybe he's jealous of your friendship, maybe your jealous of their relationship ...?

  • **Just Her**
    18 years ago

    hmm.. maybe we just dont like each other haha.

    im glad shes happy, but he has changed her, even her other best friend has noticed. the only way im jealous is how we dont relaly spend time together anymore, but what friend wouldnt be upset about that.