Suicide???

i have thought about it but idk if its the right thing to do imean i know im only 13 so i shouldnt let boyfriend problems get to me but idk what else to do that will help me i mean i have talked to my friends but they cant always help me well they help me i just idk but sometimes i think thats all i have left for me to take away the pain inside.. i mean i really loved him soo soo much and then he left and now it feels like im here alone and idk what to do?

Once again, how is suicide a solution?

Hold in there, and eventually everything will blow over, and things will get better again.

Live the life you were given, it's a privilege many people would kill for.

Kalika

Well said Britt.

My advice is to talk to someone. I'm going on tuesday to talk to my docter about it. Even if you talk to a friend about it, Just someone. Cause if you don't, Your feelings will get stronger, && May not go away so easily.

Yeah well said Britt, that's the best advice anyone could give. =D

THATS NOT TRUE! I HAVE ATTEMPTED SUICIDE MANY MANY TIMES! BUT IT NEVER WAS FAR ENOUGH OR I'D GET CAUGHT OR ID MISS THE VEIN! SO DONT SAY WE ARE TRYING TO GET ATTENTION BECAUSE THAT B*S*! OK? YOU TELL PEOPLE TO HOPE THEY'LL HELP YOU BECAUSE YOU TRULY IN YOUR HEART DONT WANNA DIE BUT ON THE OTHER HAND YOU DO AND YOU DONT WANNA HURT YOUR FRIENDS!

If you really want to commit suicide then you would do it first time. You'd know the most effective way and would succeed if you didn't want to be found/stopped and didnt want attention. Only the people that actually succeed by blowing their brains out ro whatever are serious.

ok... here's my opinion
you don't need to kill yourself over a boy. you'll get over him, if you guys broke up then obviously he wasn't the one. just wait for the right guy.

no guy is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry.
pip xxx

lately I've been going through a lot and I turned 14 about 2 weeks ago
two of my family members have died in the past month and before that happened my parents are going to have a divorce and I've lost all of my friends. I went from being one of the most popular kids in school to being called emo and I can't stand it anymore. I have considered it

Try an artery.

Kalika

please don't kill youreslf over a guy!!
u may think oh nobody wil care or notice or watever!
but this day last week my best friend the most loving person ever killed herslf over a breakup! now we are heartbroken all of my year!
she left a note saying now he's happy it doesn't work wat so ever it leaves people absolutly sick! and even those people who u aren't good mates wiv they are devestated!
so please dnt do it i dnt know if u have been touched by suicide before but it is wrong when u have experienced it! please stay strong n get conceling n wat ever u do dont kill yourself coz of a goy he's not worth your life!!!!!! if u need to talk you can email me but plz stay stong! luv drea xxx

I found out that my bf of a year & a half slept with his ex-girlfriend. I took every pill in my reach & tried my best to just die.

It was stupid.

That's all there is to it.

well if you want to get back at him do what he did to you then he will get mad and relize how stupid he is

suicide will NOT solve anything!
its just a way to show you cant handle pressure.
and besides your only what 13? hun ur gunna have a lot more boyfriends. and if you guys arnt together anymore. there has to be a reason for it. you shouold just move on. your gunna find the guy that will make your life worth wild one day.

*sighs* Once again i'll say it. Guy's aren't everything. Nor are they worth killing yourself over (vice versa). Seriously. Its the twenty-first century, stop depending on a guy. Your 13, you shouldn't be stressing over one guy breaking your heart. Dear, its called being a teenager.

Now the part about suicide. I'm not even going to go there. Use your brain. Suicide is permenant. Killing yourself will get you nowhere.

Jeez. I have yet to meet one person who doesn't need a man to live.

Here's a suggestion. Get a bucket of ice cream. Sit in front of your TV, pop in a movie, and cry till your hearts desire. Then move on.

~Luvz~
~Angie~
xoxo

Oh-My. This is making me mad, DON'T CRITICIZE HER. Golly, shes feeling bad, she doesn't need anyone blowing up in her face for thinking such thoughts when millions think about it every day.

I've thought about suicide many times, (Insert topic starter name), because my life was so bad that it felt like the only way out. Sometimes it still does seem like the only way out of this needless life, but you know what? You have to go on. I know where your coming from, not exactly, but I know that it seems so easy to just grab that thing and do it in a snap and just begone with everything and everyone. But I found that if I keep going, I can maybe make an impact on other people. You might have a passion, you might already know it, but you can manipulate that passion to do great things. Suicide is a hard topic, especially a hard topic to talk about. I have talked about it with my friends, NOT BECAUSE I WANT FOOLISH ATTENTION, BECAUSE I WANTED TO KNOW THEY CARED, and they all gave me support and a shoulder to cry on, and they said that without me they all would be nothing. Think about the people your leaving behind, the community, the world... your DREAM. Just think about it. I know the worlds tough, but I believe that if I overcome all my obstacles now... than later I'll have time to live. I hope you get through this time of agony and misery, because it does hurt, but don't listen to the bad critics here. They know nothing. Suicide isn't stupid, or foolish, its an escape we ALL think of and millions do. So don't feel bad of thinking of it, because alot do even though they'd hate to admit it. If you need a shoulder to cry on or any more advice, Pm me. ::Hugs::

As for the rest who posted here for saying it was stupid and such, your wrong. It isn't stupid, its an escape to a life some cannot breathe in. What if you were being suffocated, and you knew if you fought the pillow off your head you'd be tortured, would you take it off? Or would you let the air deprive of your lungs and kill you to avoid the future of pain? Exactly. You wouldn't, you wouldn't want to be tortured, you'd go the easy way out. Think from someones else perspective instead of your own.

Omg Guys come and go! Grow up! There has been soo much more things happen to people, worse things. There parents died. Death of close friend or sibbling. I understand why people look at sucide but wanting to kill your self of boyfriend problems is really dumb.

Who said all that was happening in her life was her boyfriend? We don't know ANYTHING of what this girl has been through, so we should not base our facts on them. Who knows, she might have way more going on at home than her boyfriend leaving.

Nobody should compare themselves to other people. Comparing is down right wrong. What matters is what is happening in her life, in our OWN life, not about "This person is going through worser times so she shouldn't feel suicidal"

"As for the rest who posted here for saying it was stupid and such, your wrong. It isn't stupid, its an escape to a life some cannot breathe in."

Suicide isn't stupid? Killing yourself over what EVERYONE has going through their mind isn't stupid? Killing yourself and bringing everyone to tears and anger at their faith in whatever they believe in isn't stupid?

Hahaha...

This "escape" has to be the most foolish one i have ever known. Possibly the most selfish, as well. Doing away with your pain while causing others so much more after you're all gone and done, conveniently resting in a pine box.

"What if you were being suffocated, and you knew if you fought the pillow off your head you'd be tortured, would you take it off? Or would you let the air deprive of your lungs and kill you to avoid the future of pain? Exactly. You wouldn't, you wouldn't want to be tortured, you'd go the easy way out."

Actually, i'd fight to what i was trying to prevent: Death. I'd die TRYING to live than just doing away with it.

"Think from someones else perspective instead of your own."

How hypocritical...

One year ago today, a girl at my school that i had known since the fourth grade committed suicide. She put the barrel of a gun to her skull and pulled the trigger. She was dead. People cried. People learned about what happened and why she did it. People changed for the worse and the good. I still have not recovered from when i found out that she was gone. In my mind, i am still standing in the cemetary, watching her grave thinking that she'll rise up out of it. But guess what - SHE HASN'T. She's gone and people have suffered because of her abscence. My faith was destroyed completely in a "God" who allegedly has so much power to do things but yet when a child cries out for help, he does nothing but stands by and watches up from his cloud.

So yeah, take your place as the pilot, girlie. You've got a whole plane full of people you know and love. You might as well just be your boyfriend's kamikaze and send the plane into a mountain of hopeless tradegy and leave your friends and family to burn inside of it.

Would you do all that for him? Would you make other people suffer because of him?

If you would, just for him, then you seriously need to A) Grow up B) Get single

//Ari\\

^^ You stole my mouth words lol! Thank you.

"Actually, i'd fight to what i was trying to prevent: Death. I'd die TRYING to live than just doing away with it."

Damn striaght. To live is a gift. Life comes with the good and the bad. Learn to adapt.

MemoirsOfMe:

"Think from someones else perspective instead of your own."

Take your own advice and think of all those people who "blew up in her face" prespectives. Maybe then you'll understand OUR point of view of the situation. Re-read the original post, and tell me, anywhere in that post did she say she had home issues? No. She only said she lost her boyfriend, therefore she wanted to kill herself. Don't assume.

Come back here in a couple years, I bet you anything your prespective will change. Mine drastically did. I use to think somewhat like you, but you know what my eyes opened even father, and for that i'm thankful. Because I got to see how lucky I am, how lucky we all are to, well, be alive.

~Luvz~
~Angie~
xoxo

There are two persepectives, and I'm seeing from both. Your side is also right, and I am assuming, but you guys are assuming also that the only problem in her life is that boyfriend of hers. You guys are just being to harsh on the word Suicide, and its not right. And don't put words in my mouth, I'm not even saying people blew up in her face.

Who cares if your depressed or not, if your sad then your sad, and if you want to die than you want to die... if your in that state of mind, than it doesn't really matter the after-effects of Suicide.

To live is a burden for some, to live is a gift for some... Its sad you guys aren't seeing from the other view.

So SHE MIGHT be doing it just because her boyfriend, and SHE MIGHT not. There are two sides, and they are both right. There we go.

My perspective isn't going to change.

"you guys are assuming also that the only problem in her life is that boyfriend of hers."

You've got to understand that the information she gives us is what we base our statements on.

//Ari\\

"...she doesn't need anyone blowing up in her face for thinking such thoughts when millions think about it every day."

I didn't put words into your mouth, you said them yourself.

Yes to live is a burden to some, but you know what that's life. Get over it. Life isn't easy, everything doesn't get handed to you on a silver platter. To give up at such a young age without even trying is just sad.

How am I assuming she has no other issues in her life? I opened this post and read what she wrote. And from what I read, I responded. I know nothing of the girl's life, so I base my opinion on the post. No more, no less.

"You guys are just being to harsh on the word Suicide, and its not right."

That is where your wrong. Sometimes it is right to be harsh when suicide is the topic. And frankly, with the amount of threads we've had regarding this topic, it gets old.

~Luvz~
~Angie~
xoxo

I didn't say you all were the ones blowing up in her face, though, so your misreading my words.

Thats right. It is life. We have to accept that some do it out of pleasure, attention, or just because they can't stand to live. We have to grow from our mistakes, and it shouldn't be so horrible and so stupid to think of it, because I think everyone goes through that stage... and she'll learn. I think sympathy is the best thing to give, and going, "That is so stupid. Just over a boyfriend?" I mean, the directions point to that, but there could be other meanings that we are not seeing. Its just its sad when I see someone feeling that way, and I just don't think its right to call them Stupid.

Yeah, I get where your coming from. I just went beyond the matter and thought more about it. I know you all have seen alot of these, but they are problems that millions are dealing with each day, and we need to SUPPORT them not BASH them about their thoughts.

So... Yeah. Support others, do not Bash. But I wasn't saying I was wrong either, because I probably am easily wrong about more going on in her life except her boyfriend.

I'm not bashing, i'm merely stating my opinion.

Sometimes sympathy isn't the best thing to give because many crave the attention. And attention only. I'm not saying I'm not sympathetic towards situations involving suicide but in my head, seriously, suicide over a boyfriend at 13, just screams attention. I give sympathy where sympathy is needed.

"So... Yeah. Support others, do not Bash."

I do support others. I'm sorry that I don't go "Oh my god, i'm so sorry about your boyfriend, but please don't do that!" That's not the way I roll. I give advice, and its up to you how you interrpurt it. Meh.

~Luvz~
~Angie~
xoxo

Why the heck would you commit suicide? I'm 13 too, the world aint' all sunshine and flowers, but you have like 70 years ahead of you, and you're thinking about wasting every single one of them, that can be used to help a person, or just be happy. Call it tough love, but you need to listen to me. You're a teenager, take a break from boyfriend drama for a minute, it's just too much at times.

Harsh, but true, if you're at rock bottom, the only place to go is up.

OK can people shut up. stop saying other people are attention seeking or whatever, you dont know them at all. You've read a couple of things on a stupid website, thats all. Also people saying suicied would solve anything are wrong. it WOULD certanly solve some stuff because you wouldnt be hurting anymore. Anyone thinking of killing themselves should (in my opinion) think of why they havent all ready. As long as that thing still matters to you you probably don't really want to die, you just want a way out. If you dont care about that thing still you wouldnt be reading this right now, unless your wasting your dieing moments reading this crap. Think about that.

I fully agree with Ari and Angie this girl never stated she wanted to commit suicide because of other things just her boyfriend and if there was more to it she should have said so...

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem

If you are having these thoughts more in likely you need to see a doctor it is very likely that you could have a chemical imblance.. Im not saying you do but depression is a chemical imblance in the brain causing people to think of suicide.

Rach

suicide!??! you might feel heart broken but your 13 stuff like this is going to happen.

yeah i tried it to and then ALMOST lost a friend to it just last week, i've realised that there are so many people that love me. and i'm sure loads of people love you to even if you don't realise it. keep strong! if u need anyone o talk to then i'm also here. even tho u don't no me! luv kiz xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Okay I don't know what you've gone through, and I won't try and say I understand. No one can truly understand anyone else unless they have gone through the same exact thing. But let me tell you that I have been molested, I don't live with my mom, half of my family hates me, my dad deserted me... The list goes on and on. I have post-traumatic stress disorder from a lot of the things i've gone through. Suicide is not the answer at all. I lost my best friend because of it. Don't do it, because it will just hurt the people who love you.
Stay Strong!
Love Ya Lots!!
*Laura*

i dont think that breaking up with your boyfriend at thirteen is enough to lead to suicide. trust me, in a few years, your priorities and the things you call imoprtant enough to make you think about stuff like this will change. when i was thirteen i thought i was so grown up and that my opinions were amazing, but looking back now, i see that i was still a child and my opinions weren't worth sh*t. and i'll probably look back in a few years time and think the same damn thing about right now.
you really shouldn't let this make you feel the need for suicide, it is part of veing a teenager, we are all condemned to it, and in a few years this will seem like the stupidest thing ever, even though now it feels like your whole life rests on this guy, who has only hurt you anyway.

dont let this ruin the rest of your life.

p.s. can people stop straying from the subject so much and creating their own little freaking hate clubs on the threads where people are asking for help? if you want to slag people off on the internet, go to another area of the site, but dont come on the sad section simply to ridicule people for their posts.

Forsaken Redeemer
xXx

hi my name is shaneka i have commited sucide before i toke over 200 pills and one month i had to stay in the hospital for about 3 months and it was not good my mom sont me to brentwood in jackson and it was horrible i had to stay there for 5 weeks its like botcamp i commited sucide because i was in a deep deppression for about 1 year i felt so bad because i lost my verginaty to this guy who told all his freinds and people talked about me at school like i was a whore i felt so bad that i started to skip school and go over this boy house name eric and he made me feel much better untill tthe school called my mom and told her i had been missing so many days out of school they took him to jail because he was 24 years old but he told me he was 16 so i committed sucide again and they sont me to this sucided prevention and south carolina and im still deppressed

lol

How do you report poltergeist activity.

I just cant get my head around ppl that would actually consider taking thier own life, all for a guy.
Hun you are only 13 yrs old, their will prob be loads more guy's coming in and out your life for yrs to come, get used to it.

*sigh* Let me repeat myself again. Suicide is a permanent solution. And really, these days girls seem so...weak (no offense to anybody). Are you serious gonna give up your life for this boy. You're 13 for goodness, who knows what other guy you'll meet later on. And if you can't handle the stress of having a boyfriend, how are you gonna handle other more important hardships in life? Your life has just begun, cool it. Pay attention to your dreams and goals than a boyfriend. Live Your LIfe With NO REGRETS!

**By the ways, boys like things they can't get. They like an independent, strong-willed girl who has her own thoughts.

Try:
Taking a bubble bath
writing in a journal or poetry
listen to music
meditate outside

Jump out of a tree in to an oncoming bus, if the bus doesnt kill you the fall hopefully will

I know I dont know you but please dont kill yourself , especially over some guy . I know two people that tried to kill themselves last month . Two of my friends and it was horrible....i dont realy know where im going with this so i will just shutup

bye

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