Dont know what to do =S

Okey, here's the deal.. Umm, it's this guy in my class that I've gotten pretty close to the last few months. He says a lot of dirty things that he want's to do with me.. Well, now I'm used to it.. But anyways.. We were talking on msn yesterday.. it was kind of like this:
He: But seriouly, could you be together with me?
Me: I think so, but I would always think that you were just playing around with me. And you.. With me?
He: Yeah :$:P
Me: Okay, but would it mean anything?
He: Yes, why do you wonder?
Me: Heard that you're playing around with a lot of girls and might tell them that they are speciel but then get tired of them and ditch her.
He: Okay, I was like that.. But I've changed :)
Me: Okay. I hope so..

And later that night we talked on msn:

Me: Can I ask comething?
He: Yeah, of course.
Me: Do you for real think that there could be anything between us?
He: I dont know.. Why do you ask.. Do you like me?
Me: I was just wondering, after you said that you've changed and stuff.
He: Okay, I dont know, I dont know if we would fit together.
Me: okay
He: yeah

and then he started to talk aboute sex and all that sh*t again... hehe, he always does that.. but I asked him if he was so horny about everyone.. he was like: No, just you.

I dont know if I should take a chance on him?
I'm pretty sure that he will want to do "stuff" with me.. But then again, will he ditch me after? My friend who have known him longer than me says that he has really changed and doesen't play around with girls now.. So, I dont know.. What should I do??

One word.

Don't.

^^
Lol.

Anyways, you're 13, I'm 13 and youngster to youngster, I'm sure that you have a good enough head on your shoulders to steer out of that direction.

I'm sure that you wouldn't be so lenient as to let a guy have his way with you, and to be able to tell him no.

If he's really changed his ways, you'll probably notice once you start going out with him.

If he hasn't, just tell him I guess we don't fit together, or you were right.

''The other person''

You make me cry, much.

you shouldn't most guys ay they've changed but they really they're stayvthe same. and if he's really horny as you say, he might want to do sumthing with you.

Okay, no. He's all about sex. Unless you're a skank who would do him just so he'll be with you, forget him. There are pleanty of guys out there that aren't all about sex. Why would you even consider being with this guy? Never mind..i don't want to know.

People only change for a little while, hardly ever for good.

Kalika

he's leading you on... no way don't go there

pip xxx

im kind of in the same situation as you are...except ive been with this guy twice now n soon its gunna be a third lol, (heiis the kind of guy when he starts feeling a strong feeling btwn us he backs off, hes scared of being in love for some reason so thats y we've been on and off but now hes no longer scared and as told me that he loves me), n whenever we werent together he was a player but when we are going out he does not even look at another girl. look, wat im trying to say is give him a chance and try to change him for the better and some players are only players when their single. when their not their deticated to that girl only...trust me ive seen the biggest player in the world, find the right one and its a year now, its only her in his life no other girl.

Sounds like he just wants to play around with you and use you... He's only looking on the outside and not on the inside where it is the most important; does he even know your name? Or what your favorite food or movie is and why? Lame questions, not the most important, but still.. he's being really imature and he's only in it for his personal meaningless 'feelings' for a temporary high. he may not care what you feel at all.

so he's always taking the conversation to sex. what do you think he wants? you also said he did that to alot of girls. what makes you diffrent? "I've changed" wow they still use that played out line?(lol). Dont even go there, because your next post will be how he used you. Dont even lower yourself for him. he aint even worth it