Help?

  • hidentruth
    18 years ago

    ok my story..
    today is my 3 month anniversary with my bf. im happy with him and all and we met really unexpectedly but we have worked through really hard times n we are still together.
    i am 16 and i have been heartbroken 2 times. I still think about my last bf because i just left him like that.
    But i really love my boyfriend the one i am with now.. like it was one of those weird spark things and u just no he is the one.
    My only problem is im semi afraid of the subject of me n him. See he was heartbroken by this girl who he was with for 3 years n then she just left. N now things are cooled down with that subject of her n him cause when me n my bf first started going out i had a hard time cause she was still in his life(like his mind). n i knew it.
    But now he is all about me.... the thing is though one night he got extremely serious.. we were fighting and almost broke up for the 5th time since he is afraid i will break his heart, even though it can go both ways. but we made up. then the next night he got even more serious and the truth came out.. he told me he wanted to marry me, which scared the hell out of him because he never wants to get married.. n he told me that we are going to make it work..
    well now he is always switching back n fourth upon the whole im gonna marry u thing.. one day its yeah im gonna marry u n then the next its no.. i dont want to get married..
    except now i dont no what to say or do cause by the way things are looking ill be with him the rest of my life cause i might be pregnant? n i dont no if i should stay or go if i am? n thats only because im afraid he will break my heart because he has already done sum damage n now.. its just hard. like i want him to want to marry me.. not be just his gf.. or the mother of his child..
    what should do or say to him.. plus he has a bad temper n is very impatient..??

  • Kalika
    18 years ago

    Not to be trusted.

    Kalika

  • gemowski
    18 years ago

    i would get rid you dont wanna lad with a bad tempet, you'll be the one hurtin 10yrs down the line.
    good luck

  • Mallory
    18 years ago

    Im 16 and ive been in a similar situation...turns out i wasnt pregnant. But me and my BF had been together for a year and a half. He is 14. He recently left me but we are still friends. But when we were together everything was fine but then he started getting really agressive and pressuring me to have sex with him again....and I said no because i didnt want to end up getting pregnant and he started hitting me....He still hits me...

    Get out. As soon as a guy starts getting agressive...get out.

    God Bless
    !Mallory!

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    "He recently left me but we are still friends." ... "I said no because i didnt want to end up getting pregnant and he started hitting me....He still hits me..."

    Why are you still friendswith this guy?