help love and lost

i dont know what to do, right i started working in november and this guy i work with is mighty fine and we are really good mates, on christmas day he told me he liked me but he was in america visiting family, he emailed me every single day, then wen he came back we carried on talking and got together, now i've been with him just short of three months, he travels to america alot, because his little sister isnt too well, any way, he has to decide on may 6th which university he is going to, either way he is gunna be 3 or 4 hours away, i dont know whether to call it off now and save us both the heart ache, or have a long distance relationship, me and him we really love each other and we are the best of mates, we sort through problems with each other, and i cant imagine life with out him, i dont know what to do, i try talking to him about it but he says we'll deal with it when it comes to it, because he cant bear the thought of losing me...i know its only been 3 months, but it seems real... he's ever so good to me and doesnt want me for sex because he's still a virgin so i dont know what to do because i know i have a really good guy here and i dont want to lose him...help please

Hi Dani, I would say that if love is really present between you and your man, long distance will work. It seems foolish to me, if you end it now to save the heartache... hmm, if heartache is to come there's not much anyone can do about it. Go for it, enjoy your time together now and for as many 'nows' as you can both manage...
Good luck and best wishes to you both
love and light

Well, if you really have feelings for him, does distance really matter?? I know distance is a huge factor in a relationship, but that just makes each vist you see him more special.
and never give up just because you want to save the heart ache, you never know what could happen.

If you love him a lot, then stick with him, because you may not find someone else like him, and it'll be worth the wait. My girlfriend lives in Canada, and I have to wait about 8 or 9 years to be with her....that's how things are working out at the moment, but I really love her and I don't want to lose her.......so yeah, stay with him, it'll be hard, but in the end, you'll be together!