Arghhhhh Boyz!

Hey,
Ive got a problem. Theres this boy i have been ummm not seeing or dating, but ummm just hooking up with. Well i was at my dance practise nd he came. He was reading my txts, and unfortunately that was when all of my ex b/fs decided to txt me. About 3 of my exs txt while he had my phone, saying that they still loved me and making all of these promises about if i took them back theyll be blah blah blah.Then Bobby(his name aint bobby but i have to call him that because of my ummm cuz) txt me this
"Well i just dont wana cum 2nd best to ne1. Those txt i read i cant promise stuff lyk that coz i mite not follow threw."
I txt him back saying he doznt have to promise me enything and wat eva he has ta offer is all im taking if u no wat i mean. Well hes not txting me back, and he probably wont come to my dance practise. I dont no what to do
And to make matters worse he said he would ask me out but 1.hes turning 17 soon and i only just turned 14 2. my cousin is 1 of his best m8s and my cousin would kill us if he knew anything had happened :s
I just dont know what 2 do
Please help me
Thanks alot
Paige
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1st of all my dads dead, nd 2nd of all it is only 3 years difference, i did not write on this post about your opinions i asked for help and if you cant give that to me id rather have no replies. I am very mature for my age, and yes i have had a few relationships but that is no way to judge some1- on their "track record" as you said.
Thanks for your answer to my post, and not meaning to offend you but i am not going to take your opinion to heart because you pretty much just called me a slut.
Thanks anyways.

i don't think your bf shoudn't be mad you are just talking to him it's not like you are going back w/him.

Sorry to say that I agree with Bob. What's the point? If you already have 3 'exes' then why try and get another one . . he'll probably make his own path sometime soon, and leave you crying in the road behind him . . .

That's not just my opinion, it's help. Leave him.

Peace. [Sole]

I agree with Bob. You have 3 exes already. It wouldn't kill you to take a break.

Take a break?
So because ive had 3 exes it means that i should stop having relationships? with people i care about?
I actually do not see the sence in that ... no offence or anything.

Firstly Paige you should mature enough to accept advice from Mr Bob - hes extremely knowledgable and is usually very right.

When you post on a public forum expect a wide variety of opinions - its shows your naivety that you requested help not opinions and actually expected as much.

Your 14...you should be playing with butterflies and studying hard, socialising with people of both sexes and not worrying about maintaining romantically charged relationships with people clearly out of your league.

How can you honestly have a successful relationship with anyone when you barely know yourself or what you want? Don't say I dont know because I do, or you would still be with boyf. number one not onto number four.

The key to happy relationships is truly knowing and being satisfied with ones self and ones own life and then finding another person you can share that with.

Almost every 14 yr old is going thru an identity crisis, I know I did I was discovering who I was learning to be independent and about my likes, dislikes and desires of myself and my life.

Take some time, give it a rest and get to know you again have some fun with your girlfriends and see where it takes you...

I didn't mean it like that. I just think every 14 year old needs a break. I also agree with the above post^. At 14, we need to have some fun with friends, focus on school, and see where things go. When you find a guy you really like, it's different. I'm just trying to give you advice. In the end, the decision is yours.

dude... the fc*k age in New Zealand is 16... and girl... take it easy.. no1 wants the same thing at 14, 15, 16, 17 and i would know... coz i'm there... i have older friends and younger friends and the older ones are still changing their minds and don't tell me New Zealand is different coz i live in Wellington and its not different! PM me if u want but honestly.. just take it easy.. enjoy the best bits in life... coz its just sux when u hit 5th form