Am I a lesbian?? Please help.

I am 15 and I have been bi since I was 12 or 13. I am now considering the possibility that I may be a lesbian.

As of late, I am not sexually attracted to guys at all. I don’t want to officially pronounce anything yet until I am sure, because if it is a PHASE, I don’t want to have to turn right back around and say I am not a lesbian.

All I want to be with is girls right now (particularly one girl who likes me as well)…and I think I may not like guys at all anymore…but how can I be sure it is not just a phase??

Don't announce anything if your not comfortable with it... if it's just a phase, it'll pass, if not, then announce it. You could be just Bi with but with a higher attraction to females, like Katie says..

Maybe at this point in your life you are in need of a person to love and being a girl, we seem to feel more close and open to one other than we do to guys. Maybe youre just seeking comfort and love, and you find that best with girls...which is completely normal, you are still a young teenager and youre in a difficult age in life you are beginning to discover who you are sexually and as a person. just dont rush into things that you arent sure of, take time and it may pass if its just a phase.

Follow your heart.

hopefully not

What? Kara?

Anyways the only wway is time itself. Wait until u feel comftorable with urself. Its best not to lable with anything until u feel its ok. SO WAIT...THINGS MIGHT TURN OUT UNTIL U FIND OUT WHO U REALLY ARE! (srry caps)

I think you should seriously not say ne thing until you know sticks are not ur thing. you may have to explore a little bit, try a guy and see if you really (when i say try i don't mean sex!) really have ne little thing for guys. if being with them makes you wanna hurl then you will know if you are lez

the question is,

do you wanna hurl?

diva

I dont want to sound patronising just because your younger
But coming from experience dont label yourself until you are entirely sure
theres no rush
and you can be more honest with yourself
good luck :)
xxxxxxxxxx

hon your young yet. I would wait and see how things go. If nothing ealce I would say you where bi leaning to lesbian at the moment. You found a girl you like to be with thats great.

take everything slowly, you're not in a hurry =)

No affence but
what is it with bi this year every one is going bi its like cutting no affence its like afashion treade and all the real people that are bi or prober cutter get pushed aside by the attenshion seekers why make a fashion out of things like this its just sad

no i do not mean the person that started this bored

i think you should wait awhile to really see try going out with some lads or looking at some in the street see what you think boy or girl it does not matter as long as you are happy
(soz about the rant )

^ Learn how to spell.

woww.. hunn you have nothing to worry aboutt... some people are going to tell you, that you are too young to actually know what you are feelingg.. don't listen to themm.. you have too much going for you..
Listen yo your heart, and not other people... they don't have to live with what you are feelingg..

No your not a lesbian, not quite yet

this is an old thread. if the original poster still wants to know if she's a lesbian, she can post a new thread on the topic.