NEED HELP

  • In Joy And Sorrow
    18 years ago

    I met this girl while i was on holidays, she lives like 2 hours flying away from me!! i dont know wat is was bout her but as soon as i saw her i wanted more, that same night i saw her at a party and she sed the exact same thing as i was thinking, so i got on really well with her. one week later i left, i kept getting txt's from her saying how much she missed me and "loved" me, and yes i believed she did love me, so 3 motnhs after meeting her i payed $300 out of my own money to go and see her and things were perfect, then yet again i left, after leaving we were both out of our minds with "love". then another 2 weeks passed and things started to get rocky, then i got all these txt's from her sayin how she never loved me and she just led me on,now 2 months on i thought i had gotten over her, when i get a txt from her sayin sorry?

    I need help, im to forgiving do i accept her apology?
    We're both 16 with so much more ahead

  • PooHbeaR
    18 years ago

    yeah i had the same thing happen to me. (*i'm a female*) ... he said he loved me, yak yak yak then he says his true love was this other girl. then he says sorry... well i forgave him. it was hard, but i did anyway. but we're not even friends no more, i dunno why, but at least i forgave him and we both know we have nothing against one another. accept her apology, but you dont have to have anything if thats what she wants. live one day at a time and see what happens next. you guys might become just friends, or more than that, but no matter what happens, live in peace and everythin will go smoothly for both of ya. wish you luck in everything :)

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    ^I disagree. I think that long distance relationships are really hard to make work in the first place, and it's even harder for you because she apparently doesn't know what she wants. And I dunno about this "love" thing. That didn't seem to take very long.

    But anyways, my point is that I would suggest just calling things off with her. Even though that might be harder for you.

    Take care.

  • swill
    18 years ago

    ^ completely agree

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I agree ^. Yes, you should forgive her, but you shouldn't take her back. Apparently she doesn't know what she wants or what love is. You're 16, there is probably someone out there who knows what they want and will stick with you. If she can't handle things when the road gets rocky, she's not ready for a relationship. I think you should try and find someone who's actually willing to try. Good luck.