LOST! NEED HELP

ok theres this one girl i'm friends with...... we used to be so close... she was like a sister to me, and i trusted her a lot. but right now i'm feeling really sad because i can see that she is with some other people, making new friends and stuff. i can feel that someday she will completely forget me, and guess what?? i got no one to trust anymore on earth. i'm feeling rejected and alone. i need someone's advice....... what should i do? i've been crying my head off these past few days b/c we were sooooooo close and i loved her family cuz everyone was so nice & loving. her house was like heaven compared to my home. i felt like i was cared for at her house, not mine. but now, i dont remember the last time i spent some time at her house. WHAT SHOULD I DO?? i miss her a lot and i dunno what to do cuz it looks like she's found new friends for herself and i feel left out.

My closest friend recently got new friends and gradually forgot about me so I kinda know how you may be feeling. It's horrible I know, and I have dealt with it well, i've just become bitter and angry towards her, especially after some of the things she said. I think now that ive seen her with other people, she wasn't a true friend, she did this to another girl when I was becoming close to her. I say just keep your head up high and try not to let it get you down. I now trust nobody else either at all, but I won't show her how much im hurting becuase I don't think she deserves to know. Wow. I think i just did some venting instead of help you .. but you can email me if you would like to. *shrugs*.

Friendships are always changing..the key is to not let these changes change you. it's okay to trust people. try not to take it too personally.

If she just got new friends, it doesn't mean she doesn't care for you as well. Stay in contact, show your love and support, no one likes people who act too clingy. But be careful, I lost my best friend that way, the way you were talking about. I got into a lot of trouble last summer for screwing up my life, so I was grounded and didn't get to see her very often. That summer she fell in with the wrong group of people, and changed herself to be like them. Slowly but surely, I lost her. When we finally met again . . . I honestly didn't recognize her anymore. I had to watch my best friend slowly leave me, for things that I knew would make her life miserable. So yeah, bascially, make sure she knows you care, and even sit down with ehr and talk with her, express your concerns. Just be careful she doesn't feel like you are being a possessive friend, b/c then she will want space. Good luck hunni!

-Tainted

3 words: get over it.
someone already bought this up but seriously she wont forget you if you are good friends.

pip xxx

I can perfectly relate. I'm sorry that I have no advice to give you because right now i'm trying to find out myself what I should do. All I can say is, try to make new friends, dwelling on just her will cause more pain and thats not something you deserve, or anyone for that matter. Stay strong hun.

~Luvz~
~Angie~
xoxo