he isnt a cheat! but evidence says otherwise!

Well he actually told you that he was going to see family in may? So why then say he was just being polite to her - and why didn't he tell you the truth?

Peace. [Sole]

Well - you talked to him about it, so there really isn't much more you can do . . I don't want you to get hurt, and it probably isn't anything - but don't break up with him over it. And don't go behind his back asking where he's going in May. Do you trust him? More importantly perhaps . . . do you love him?

Peace. [Sole]

"deep down i truley dont believe he would cheat"

If the above was, in fact, true, than, you would have no problem putting it to the back of your mind.

There would be no doubts.

Kalika

I'm sorry, but I do think he is fooling around, or wants to. But then again, you never do know. I use to think my boyfriend was fooling around, but later realized he wasn't, just being an ass. Someitmes it is hard to read guys. But remember, this is your life, and you don't need some guy worrying you day and night. There are always more guys out there. Hope everything works with you. Good Luck.

It's hard to say. From what you say, it seems like he might be messing around, but you can't be positive. When she said she had a lovely time, she could have meant talking to him. I think you should talk to him again. Look him in the eyes and tell him you want him to be completely honest and if he can tell you he wasn't doing anything with complete sincerity, you should trust him. If you really love him, you will be able to trust him. If anything like this happens again and there is proof he really did cheat, that's when you would let him go. Hope i helped.