Why ME!!!!

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    OK I've had a lot on mind and I can't get it off all I want is to be happy like I use to be but know I can't... Well you see I was at a local speedway in my home town and well I met up with my good friend E.W. again and well he introudced me to one of his friends A.S. and well it was all good intill today I was checking my e-mails and well me and this A.S. the new guy I was introuduced to was e-mailing me and everything was going ok and well then his girlfriend told me to stay out of their life b/c he is 22 and he is to old for me and he does not like me well I was hurt and see she said u can stay out of our children's life to and then she called me a B*tch what should I do about this I was really heart broke and now I just wanna cry. Can you give me any advice please. I will be 16 next tuesday and I wanna be the normal person I use to be and not be hated everyday.

    *~*Amanda~!

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Leave this guy well alone? He's 22, has a girlfriend and has kids. Do you want to be a home wrecker?

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    But... the thing is I don't like him were good friends and we've been good friends since we met we have been friends for a couple months and well see it is don't matter anymore he told me to ignore his B*tchy girlfriend so nvm

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    Well then, maybe from his girlfriends point of view, you went over the line?
    Just try and work out the boundaries, and you'll be fine,
    Hope you guys remain good friends,
    Take Care,
    xxx

  • Teys
    18 years ago

    i really dislike young chicks thathang around with way too old guys... that's how you get the name of a slut, slag, being easy, etc etc etc ETC.

    furthermore, wot decent 22 y.o male sees ANYTHING of value in a 16 year old girl? HONESTLY, if anything he is just looking to poke your little body once he breaks up with his gf (or while still with her)... only reason i can see a guy of such older age wantd to "befriend" you.

    peace.

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    well i got the news we are friends and he called his EX girlfriend and told her to not worry about me so I didn't and we are friends so its all good.

  • Jackie Marie
    18 years ago

    Slut, whore..all those names huh? Let me tell you ..my Best friend is 3 years older then me and when I turn 18 he will be 22...So does that make me a whore, slut and all the other names that you said? NO IT DOESNT in order to BE one of those names you have to SLEEP AROUND...I freaking hate when people say that.

    Hunn...just make sure you dont ruin things back at his home ok? You dont want to do that...But if you guys are just friends then that is ok. You dont want problems between you and his ex, do you?

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    No I don't want anything to happen she already threatned me before she found out I was talking to him and I was scared and thanks

    Amanda

  • Lying To Live
    18 years ago

    leave him alone...simple words of advice

  • Jackie Marie
    18 years ago

    Why is everyone saying "leave him alone" Yes, he may be a few years older, but they are just friends. My mom always taught me that there is nothing wrong with having friends that may be older. You can have friends of all ages. Has anyone noticed how much age breaks us up in this world? BE FRIENDS WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH!

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    "Why is everyone saying "leave him alone" Yes, he may be a few years older, but they are just friends"

    And because he has a girlfriend. And kids.

  • Jackie Marie
    18 years ago

    Yeah i agree with you ^^ What if you had a friend who was a little older and he was, lets say, your best friend. Would you want to stop being bestfriends because he has a gf and kids? I know I wouldn't. Its not like they are dating. They are only friends.

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    Thank you Thank you and we were friends before this girl came along so she has no right tellin me what to do and I'm gettin sick and tired of it oh wow he is 6yrs older than me does it look like i care no but we are staying friends and I got the words right from him we are friends and I'm going to be there for him when his sons need me because I take care of them more than his ex gf

    Amanda

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Look it's called jealousy from this other girl. Deal with it.

  • asia[imperfection] is alone in the world
    18 years ago

    well in the first place your friend E.W. shouldnt have introduced you to his friend A.S. if he knew that he was 22. i think thats his fault. but in the other fact, you should just leave him alone and try not to think about i mean hes 22 and has a girlfriend. and as for being a normal person, there is no such thing, no one is normal these days and i dont want this to sound mean. but everyone wishes to be normal but all they ever end up as is as the same person they started with and that same person you end up as is you.

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    well were all good friends and we all love to hang out with each other and she is the ex and she don't need to be treating me like crap and that is the words from A.S. So i guess its ok and he gives me permission to hangout with him and his boys.

    Amanda

  • Lexi
    18 years ago

    being honest i think im going with what kim said...

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    yea she called him on his cell we talked and i said are you jelous and she said no but then he asked her and she told him yes so who is tellin the truth

    Amanda*