B-F problems!!!!

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    Here's what I suggest...

    Make sure you explain to your boyfriend why you slept with so many guys and tell him that sexual things aren't as special if you do them "just because" or because you've done them before. Let him know that he is special to you, but you don't want to do sexual things... at least not yet. Let him know that what's in the past is in the past.. It doesn't really concern him and your relationship together. He is a different person and what goes on between you two shouldn't be decided by what you have done with others in the past... If he can't accept that, then, I hate to tell you, but you need to lose him... Because it kind of sounds like all he wants from you is sexual favors... But then again, I don't know the whole story or anything... but that's my opinion.

    ~BJ~

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    I Think that if he is trying to force you into doing things in which you're not comfortable with, you need to talk to him about it, because its not right.

    If your boyfriend loves you, he'll try to understand and he'll try to realise what you went through and the stuff you did was a turn out of that.

    Take care
    xxx

  • SplitSided
    18 years ago

    15 is a BIG number..that's alot of guys...no offense or anything but are you sure that your clean?...but anyway...ask HIM...what to do he's the only 1 that can help ya...the 2 cents that ya get here...are suggestions..don't let "suggestions" dictate how your relationship goes...lol..common sense..ask him..what to do..talk to HIM..HE can help you..anyway thanks for listenin to my 2 cents