omg help me NOW

ok you have no clue and i cannot fill you in is such short space.

my ex boy friend was at the rink last night. he was my first and my first kiss and my first date and my first lots of things. i really liked him.

when i saw him he was all like telling me how beautiful i was and stuff and how much i have grown since we broke up and all.

all my feelings started coming back for him. i d k wat i am going to do! seriously i need some help

b4 i saw him again i was soo despritly trying to go out with my huge crush david.

i was trying trying trying so hard but i could not help all of these feelings coming back to me.

my friends tell me they will smack me cause i am a cheerleader starting to choose a chubby dude over a guy with 6 pack and pecks.

i mean gosh i d k wat to do really i don't
am i making a mistake?
am i really ment to be with him?
should i give david a chance b4 i went and possibly make a possible mistake? i d k wat to do

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

DIVA

Who cares about appearances. You go for the heart!

Like anything looks fade with time you should be looking for a person with the same wants and needs as you in a relationship and one you can conversate with ...

Sounds like you have some growing up and soul searching to do before you can have any sort of successful relationship with anyone else - regardless of there status.

Spend sometime on your own and get to know yourself and what you want not trying so desperately to jump into hasty relationships...

it depends what you value more, yor feelings, popularity, reputation.. stuff like that...

i guess, most people in high school would care more about what friends think, popularity, and reputation... but I know.. sometimes it is extrmeley hard to let go, even though we would like to...

maybe just try not to do anything for a while... see how you feel then... or keep trying to go out with your crush, see if your heart tells you to stop or not... maybe that will help you figure out if its just a relaspe or you do really still like him a lot

most people have a choice to make whats meant to be for them.. if its not meant to be.. we can still go against fate, and maybe even change it... but it depends if you want to, and the others who are involved want to or not...

-kelsie

Yes, your friends are shallow if they think that weight or appearance matter. That's a really immature thing to think and try to convince your friend to go on something based off looks.

You need to go to what YOU KNOW is best for you. Is this crush of yours nicer and smarter then your ex?

well ok let me clarify some things, david*my crush* is smart, cute, funny, makes me laugh, likes me but is having a hard time on wat to do about it.
Travis is has cute eyes, soooo charming, everyday that we went out he made me feel like a queen, he still likes me today liek he did that immature, bossy, stubbern, girl i was then, i was unexperieced in the goin out field ya kno? but he still loved me. we only broke it off cause he was moving and we thought we would never see each other again so it was for our own good. but fate brought us back together.

i have changed alot, i know i have i mean i kno how awful i was to him and he still liked me.
i just wonder wat woudl happen if we went out now and he saw the more consiterate me?

should i try it with him again or should i go for david? i really dont' know? i just i mean i am not the type to go back into an old relationship

but the way he felt , the way my stomach turned to knots when he hugged me when we met back up, i could not help but want him back

he asked me out

wat should i do?
how should i judge this one?

it seems your heart has already answered for you... the question you SHOULD be asking is if you're really going to listen or if you're willing to allow vanity and social status affect your choice.

just remember-it's YOUR choice. No one else can make it for you.

^ good advice, exactly what i would have put :P thanks for typing for us all LOL take care everyone, love you all! ^_^

-*-Cherri-*-

thing is y is he ur ex? think about that. if its just cuz of looks then follow ur heart but if its because his hurt u before in any way then well be wary i suppose.

ooo i change my mind go for it girl, follow ur heasrt 4 god sake

thank you you guys........i decided to go with travis, but my heart kept telling me it was the wrong thing to do *along with my parent's reminder of how he used me for my money last time and them and their money * i really have decided i don't want either guy .........i want to date myself i guess i can say. i wanna kno me better nd catch up on some things that need to be caught up on i guess i could say.........

diva