some older poets?can i have ur advice?pls!

  • Tara Kay
    18 years ago

    here's what i think. I think he really cares for you, and you care for him right?
    Then if he feels he needs to go back to uni, then you respect his wishes becayse you care for him. Maybe you should try a long distance relationship, if it doesnt work then okay, if it does then great.
    I know its hard being apart from someone so close so it will be painful.
    Would you be willing to wait for him? do you think you could?
    Its your choice, between you.
    Love Tara-Kay

  • Tara Kay
    18 years ago

    mmm, its a tough one i admit. It only seems that splitting up is the only option here. I feel for you because you care so much and its hard and your hurting i know.
    ever need to talk, im here
    love Tara-Kay

  • Nee
    18 years ago

    hold onto the one you love tightly!!! if you really love him dont let him go(I mean you dont hv to break up)
    I'm into the same situation but I hvnt told my boyfriend that I'll move..he knows that i MIGHT but I hvnt told him yet that we really are intending to!! but we will stay like we are..telephone calls and seeing each other from time to time..holidayz and so..so you still can stay together..thats if you really love him to death..and if you really want the best for him!! and him, If he really loves you..I dont think it wud be the best for him to break up!!..but as you said u agreed to separate...well, do you really want that???? I mean if you really love him you shudnt hv said that!!
    thats all I can say but I wish you good luck anyway =)
    take care
    XxXxXxXxX

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    If you love something let it go, if it comes back to you its yours if it doesn't then you will never know.