HE LOVES ME???? AHHHHHHH!!!

he told me he loves me and I broke up with him now he is begging me to go bacl out with him what do I do ??? I am afriad to love any1 cuz theyll dropp me and plus he is just not my type not thuggish enough he treated me really good tho and was always there and he really likes me what now??

~afraid of commitment and an unthugged out guy!

Sounds like your settling for something you dont really want because your afriad no one else will have you...not the greatest basis for a relationship don't you agree?

yeah i kinda think too your gonna be settling for something u dont really want..
u sure your just hiding form what your feeling for him which could be more than friends.. it happens honest it does.. i did it with couple blokes after i got cheated on and um its seems easier to do it and protect yourself form hurt, rejection, and cpmmitment..
i wood be lying if i didnt say im still a lil scared of commitment but jus take your time and work it out in your head and heart if u want him more than mate or not!
take care

You want a "thuggish" guy? What the hell happened to the days where a guy who treated him woman like a princess was good enough. Now they have to be "thuggish" carrying guns and putting gold in their mouth. I've been there done that little one....stick with the nice guys.

"Thuggish?" You want a thuggish guy. There is no help now...

I agree with the person above...

^I agree.

are you serious?
no really are you?
you don't want to date him becuase he's not-ahem- "thuggish" enough?
let me tell you a little something about those boys who dress like they're trying to be from the ghetto...
they will never treat you right becuase that's what they're being trained to do by these MTV rap/hip hop 'wangstas" or whatever you call them.
HE treats you right?
he cares about you?
he LOVES you?
them what are you really thinking by letting him go becuase he doesn't fit your normal mold of a guy.
I'm sorry but I don't think you're afraid of commitment...I think you're being shallow.

The same thing happened to my friend

she didnt dump him cuz he wasnt "thuggish" enough though they just didnt click.. or he didnt click for her.. theres nothing you can do if you dont love him .. but i definitly think that if you dont love him then dont get back with him because thats not fair to him.. anyways point to this story: you cant make yourself love someone if you dont. Period.

i hada guy who was a goodie goodie and he treated me like a prinsess, i was the biggest bitch to him eva, but he still loved me sooo much
he took me out to really nice places all the time brought me nice clothes and worshiped the ground i walked on.
i ended up finishing him (we're still friends tho) and now he's havimg a baby with sumone else(who's even woste to him than me).
and now im GUTTED i did the wrong thing.
he still say's he wants me but i can't come between him and his new family to be!

just try it out you've got nothing to lose if it goes wrong so what you tried.
if you dont give it a try you may be the one hurt in the future
you have to build on love it doesn't just happen.

good luck in what ever you chose to do hun.

gemma 20 in cheshire

I agree, I mean why does it matter if he's "THUGGED OUT? I mean all that matters is how you feel about him! The looks aren't everything! The thing that makes a guy attractive id their personality in my opinion! I mean it time for a change, you might like guys or types like him instead of "thugged ones"? you just never know!
~*~Cindy~*~

Thug: One of the band of worshipers of the goddess Kali, whom they sacrificed their victims to.

Original Thugs. HaHa. I can see why you would want one.

Thuggee.

Kalika