Have you ever...?

Have you ever thought of losing a best friend??? I have because I've lost my best friend and I tell you its the hardest thing to cope with b/c we were so close. I just wanna know why he left me so fast without telling me without know reasons and he just got up and left leaving me in the cold well not really it was the warm summer day but it seemed as if it was on a cold day b/c he left me so quickly and I wanted to stand there with his jacket he let me barrow and cry my heart out. He said were still friends but can I believe that?? Can you please help?? I'm lost without him

*Amanda

Dont base your existance on another person, you survived before him and you will survive after him. I lost my best friend too, I know how hard it can be and how much it hurts to not have that reassuring comfort. Maybe there was something else going on in his life that made him need to be selfish...don't blame yourself for that tho and as hard as it may say don't let it get you down. You must be a great person after all thats why he chose you for his best friend in the first place true? It also leaves an opening in your life for new friends, try and turn the negative into a positive and just hold on to the good memories and not the bad ending :o)

I so would like to thank you he is just changed my life we dated for a year and i just miss him and well i agree with you thanks

Amanda

Amanda everyday of my life i deal with losing my best friend see technically it was my fault i lost her but believe though it doesn't seem like it won't get easier it will only time can mend a wound

kc_da_chick@yahoo.com(anyone who needs to talk)

im so sorry, i know how hard it is to deal with losing a best friend. me and my best mate fell out at one point and didnt talk for about half a year, and i can honestly say that it was the worst time of my entire life, and i cant think of anything that hurt me more, i know how u feel. im always here if u need to talk to someone.

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I was wondering what do u do when he or she ignores all your calls and his parents says hes never home but you can hear him in the back ground can u help me with that please

Thanks
Amanda

Pleasure hun

If you really need to tell him how you feel before you can move on then write to him. Read it over and over before you send it and make sure it gets across all your feelings so this is no longer unfinished business for you.
Leave the ball in his court to then try and patch things up because after that there is nothing much you can do but try to move on and be happy with out him :O)

Do you really think I should do that ^^^ my mom said to brush him off but were really close friends and I don't wanna lose him over his girlfriend b/c that is what ruined our friendship and know I feel like cryin because I'm losing a close friend and all his other friends have tried to talk to him and said to him that i'm not the same since our friendship has ended and he says to them were still friends but why does he not answer my telephone calls my e-mails and when i do call him he is there and he you can here him in the background laughing when his mom says he is not home hurts me so bad. Can you still please help me ?

Amanda :( :(

Your mum is trying to protect your nbest interests she can obviously see how much your hurting and she doesnt want you to experience that sort of pain again.
hearing your story compelled me to take the advice I gave you - I didnt exactly pour my heart out in a letter but i was honest and greatful about the times my bestie and I shared, I thanked her for her time and energy over the years, I left her my new addy incase she could be inclined to get in contact with me. I felt shit scared putting it in the mail box but now its gone I have a sense of relief and if she doesnt write back...well thats her choice I feel like I have done all I could do and I wished her the best and every happiness regardless. You'll live with regret if you dont write and send that letter hun, do it and if you dont hear back then move on knowing you tried your best and without that sense of regret. Hes being terribly immature he doesnt deserve you...but I understand your devotion to him so take a weight off and write that letter.

Good Luck and email me to let me know how it goes

well thanks I think I will start writing that long letter in Study Hall today and get all my feelings out and well whats ur e-mail lol well um take care and I really apperciate that advice.

Amanda

Pleasure Amanda I hope it brings you some closure just click on my profile hun for my email :o)

i lost a friend well i should say all my friends now i am all alone its not nice at all i hate it its never eay to lose a friend no matter what i wish i could help but i am in the same boat as you

Thanks to everyone I still need the advice b/c i called him last night we talked for a whole 1minute and 7seconds and our conversations use to be like 1hr and 35sec I'm heartbroke