KARMA IS A BOTCH // LADIES HELP!!!!!

  • FLIMPPER
    18 years ago

    Hi Girls I need your help...

    Okay there is this guy and we went out sooo many times each time and each time I dumped him for stupind things and he really liked me ..He was perfect and now I want him back and he has changed I think I dumped him because I liked him so much and i was afraid of everything getting to heavy and commited .
    Now he is changed all gangsterish and he is so different should I try to talk to him again ????

  • Sunflower
    18 years ago

    It all depends if you like him, if you do, give it a shot, if not, oh well. But don't worry about the past, cause I've dumped a good share of guys make in school for stupid reasons, but now I am with someone who want allow me to break up with him, he litterally says, "no, we're not breaking up." and honestly I am so happy he has done that cause it has helpped me realize you have to work really hard to make it work. I hope what you want, works out of you. Good Luck.

  • xDryTearsx
    18 years ago

    Well you have to look from his point of view being rejected so many times probably hurt his pride and everything and maybe he really likes you but is tired of being hurt
    If you think your ready for a relationship with him and are willing to commit and you really have feelings for him then you should talk to him tell him what you told us that you were afraid
    he may have changed but he probably still likes you i really hope everything works out good luck

    Love Always ♥Kristy♥

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    i have wanted to break up with guys for silly reasons too. i understand and well if he has changed and you like the change then you should go for it but if you don't well girls cannot change guys into men. so honey you will have to move on and find that someone. when you get guys you need to talk about problems instead of just going and breaking up with them. i am a person who the little things mean more to me than the big. so i kno wat i am talking about when i tell you to just sit down and think it through when you are not on your period and don't make ne choices when you are on it either. but you need to talk it through and forgive and give him a chance to fix it and if he does it again let him kno that second but dont' yell jsut calmly tell him wat you think and feel. but remember not to command him how to act or let him think you are trying to control him because guys hate that. kk luv ya much and good luck!

  • Emily
    18 years ago

    NEVER.

    EVER.

    ON YOUR LIFE.

    GO OUT WITH A GANGSTER.

    Haha, no offense to those people who are ''gangsters'' but if someone just turns gangster, and they weren't before.

    They're just...annoying, yet humorous.

    You really like him now, but, if he's changed, you don't know if he's someone your compatible with now..

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Lol I agree 100% Missy :o)
    LMAO Well said he he he

    I think you should just let nature take its course, dont chase love, let love come to you