what woulod you do if ur ex still likes you?

umm well my ex still likes me a lot...and quite frankly..i like him back...but im scared of getting hurt again,even tho i kno if i went back with him id be making a hard choice....
can any1 give me some good advice?

I guess it depends on why you broke up in the first place. If he hurt you once, I'd say there's a pretty good chance he's gonna do it again.

I can honestly say If I was you, and I liked him ALOT, I would give it a second chance. If he seemed like a player kinda guy, I'd kick him the balls. It really in my opinon depends on what type of guy he is. You can usually tell if they're the type to break your heart. Your the only person who can really make the smart decisison. Hope it all works out.

ok i just posted a topic on the same exact situaation yesterday. ok wat happens is you need to think about it seriously. let it be your oppionion on wat you need to do. think over wat your past relationship was like and think of all of hte things. Remember he is called your ex for a reason. if you have a diary read over your past feelings. watever happend then is mostlikely to happen again.

if you choose to go with him again try to communicate and work it out and make it clear that you do not want w/e happend last time to happen again ok?

o and you need to also think about if these feelings toward him are just old memories or are they true blue love or just a crush. are you falling for the looks and charm that you did b4 or wat?

you need to strongly think to yourself about this decision. ok?

good luck..

diva

Wow..i'm in the exact same situation..awkward. Okay, if he was the one to hurt you, i wouldn't take that chance again because you will most likely wind up heart broken again. The only time you should give them a second chance is if you love them. Good luck.

To be honest.. if my ex still liked me, I'd be the happiest person in the world. I love him more than anything and miss him more than he'll ever know.

Just close your eyes, listen to your heart and follow your instincts.. If your heart tells you that you love him and can trust him not to hurt you, I say go for it. If your heart agrees with your mind, and tells you that even though you still like him, you can't trust him not to hurt you, then try to move on.

Listen to your heart and you can't go wrong. And remember: Love is a risk.

um.. if you broke up with him, then i dont see y not.. but if itz the other way round, then he might do it again.. but then again, all good things come with sacrifices.. you could enjoy it while it lasts and then if he does hurt you.. at least you got something out of it, rather than not doin netin at all..
hope this helped
jessy

follow your heart if hes serous then why not give him a chance with you to prove that it can work then if it doesn't you'll still be ok just learning a lesson.

follow your heart if hes serous then why not give him a chance with you to prove that it can work then if it doesn't you'll still be ok just learning a lesson.

It all really depends on you. If he hurt you, and you're willing to take that risk again, then go for it! Some guys really do change...and it's all up to you on whether or not you want to give him a second chance.

well ok all i can say is be care full cause i really can't go back to my ex cause he's in juvy cause he shot and killed my best friend so yeah just see what you want to do.