I need Help and i mean MAJOR help!!!

i just got this new boyfriend named mike and hes a really sweet guy and everything, he says he likes me and everything seemed fine over the weekend, he came over and i went there once and we just hungout with friends but then 2day at school i saw him and he didnt say hi or ne thing, i thought we were ok but now im not so sure, he told me he wants 2 last forever but im not sure thats true, and b4 all this we were having so problems with wat ppl had been saying, some ppl had been telling me that he wanted to break it off and i seriously thought it was true until he called me we talked through it and it wasnt true or well thats at least what he told me i dont no wat to do, should i believe him or not?, why didnt he talk to me what did i do? i need help ppl help me please

hmmmm. a lot of guys do that these days, which is really sad because LOVE IS NOT A GAME! but ok, this one is tough. i think the best you could do is give him time. sounds lame, but in my opinion i think thats the best SO FAR that you could do. see how he acts later. if he proves to you that it WASNT true, then thats great, but if you see he aint serious about the relationship, you could then make your choice, break up with him or hang on and let HIM break up with YOU and break your heart... its gonna depend on you later. but for now give him time.. hope that helped at least a lil :)

Wat i would do *trust me from experience and this really works* is get with him. when nobody is around. and yelll your freakin head off. and i don't mean ferousious yell but a demanding yell. let him know that it is no game. if you give him time i d k wat will happen. the game will go on and on. but if you stand up to him and say wat the beep is ogin on here and why are you doing this to me? then he will answer. let him know that you do not appreciate it.
actually i am quite impressed that you 2 tlaked about it cause alot of ppl would go cra-z and break up over it b4 they do that so good job on that one.

well just work it out and maybe throw in a "i don't deserve to be treated this way" and he will come around soon let him konw you want change or else. i mean he must like you........ok hte you want change demand is only if he starts blaming you or somin major happens kk?

well good luck on wat to do

diva

^Yelling won't get you anywhere, it will just tick both of you off.

I'm not sure why he wouldn't say hi to you at school, you said you talked to him, what reason did he give? You should probably give him the benefit of the doubt, and let it go.

well communication is kinda vital in a relationship, but so is trust. if he doidn't talk to you, he may not have heard u or seen u. but if that is definately not the case..... then the only real question is... Do You trust him???

i hope you work things out, honey. really. Good Luck!
-Suzie J

hmm.. im not rilly sure wut you should do.. but.. if you dont trust him then i think you should talk to him.. ask him about the rumors you've heard.. i would say.. just wait a while and see what happens..
jessy