WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

ok i have this guy who likes me but he doesnt exactly live where i live and i have hung out with him a couple of times and i dont know if i should go out with him or not cuz of what my friends would say, because hes 3 years older than me and he doesnt want sex he just gets along with me really good, and hes really sweet and nice and we've talked on the phone alot and he says he really likes me AND LOVES ME.. and wants to go out with me but idk if i should. everybody is saying i should listen to my heart,....but it isnt talking to me right now....what should i do????? im not sure if i want to go out with him cuz of WHAT MY FRIENDS ARE GONNA SAY BECAUSE WHEN I REALLY LOVED MY LAST BOYFRIEND THEY MADE FUN OF ME FOR IT CUZ HE DIDNT LIVE WHERE I LIVE AND WAS A COUPLE YEARS YOUNGER......PLEASE HELP

First of all, if you're that unsure about it, then just don't.

Second of all, I never understood why a 16 year old would want to date a 13 year old, it doesn't seem right somehow.

So I suggest you don't, but you're just going to have to decide for yourself.

I'm sorry, but I am going to say what I think. You can be 13 and in love. Anything is possible. But, in my opinion, I feel you shouldn't say "I love you" unless you really truely mean it. Like, you say, "I like you alot" and stuff. So, if you guys only met a couple times, then it really would not be love, but perhaps an attraction to each other. So, now that thats covered, about giving it a shot. Why dont you?!?! You really have nothing to lose. Your young, and have many years ahead to find love again, so why not give it a shot. If it doesn't work out, it wouldn't be the end of the world. So, I'd have to say, go for it.

At 13, i think 3 years is a little too much difference. At 16, many teen guys are having sex. Just be careful. It's not love. You barely know the guy.

I have to agree with everyone above but i have to add one thing you shouldnt care about what other people think or say
i have people making fun of me because of my relationship but its only because of the age difference .. and those people arnt even my friends it my family lol just dont let other people decide for you because of what they say about it but take into concideration of the advice the other posts up there are giving. Well thats all good luck. ♥

umm.. not rilly sure wut you should do.. if you lik him, dont worry abt where he lives or wut ur friends will think of him.. but jus b careful.. i dont think that is all a 16 year old guy wants from you.. jus dont let him take advantage of you ok?
jessy

Well...if he is older then you and if he doesnt think about sex then there is no problem..cauze i fall in love and they are usually older then me too..so yea..you know..people say listen to your heart..but sometimes like you said it wont help..well guess what..are you sure if dat guy really likes you?if you are..then dont loose him....cauze once you loose you cant get them bak again...but if you have other guyz that likes you then its tough..but if not..then dont LOOSE HIMM!!!and if you are not sure if you like him or not..then just try..and see...good luck!!
CHILLY

thanx

yeah thanx but i just found out that my ex likes me again too.......