How Do I Just Get Over IT?

dont lovv someone that doesnt love you back thats all i gotta to say

jackie

dont worry guys come and go

Don't worry Kim, this kind of things happens to just about everyone, and I envy the ones who have not experienced this before :P Its always hard to let go but time will heal pain. No one can change the past but we can change our future. The thing is, why let him control you when he's so horrible to you?? he's not controling you you would say... but he is, though your memory, and how you keep on going back to them... Im sure you deserve someone much better :) don't let one guy get you down. Its always better if you can share your thoughts and feelings with a friend... trust me, no one will look down on you, for I was in your place a while ago. Fill you life with things to do, hang with friends and people that cares... I hope that helps :) take care.

Hey...I've been exactly where you are! I agree with somegirl...writing is the best therapy. Also as cliche as it may sound time heals all things! You'll never forget him, but you'll find in time that you are much better off without him!! Eventually the tears and pain will subside! The best thing to do is keep yourself busy! If you ever need to talk you can e-mail me (hollyarmer@yahoo.com)!
Take care- *Holly*

Sometimes things that u want to go away arent as simple as saying them...its easier to talk to ppl and see how they feel...just stop for a second..go to ur room put on some music that u like..and think about all the good times..its alot easier...it sounds like u just need a break...take ur arms and wrap them around u..everyone needs a hug here and there...and dont worry..u can always talk to ppl on here if u need them..they are really supportive..good luck!!!~~Val

Some Girl, I think your advice is right on target.

And Kim, sorry for your heartbreak.

Just a couple things here that I tried to learn from my own mistakes. During the course of a relationship, it should still be important for people to maintain their own separate individualities. You said you lost contact with your friends. That makes it sound like this relationship was consuming your own identity. Whenever we allow ourselves to be dominated by a partner or by the relationship itself, it almost always works against us. I also think it's important to discuss boundaries early on in a relationship so that each person has a clear understanding of what the other person expects and what is or is not acceptable with each person.

All the best! ---Lydia

Super easy make a list of what U hate of him or what he did bad like of two pages and then rip it up and throw it in a fire
I had the same problem
Good luck

**Alexander **

I know how u feel, it's very hard to just "get over it" and really, i dont think anybody truly does fully get over with it, they just learn to cope, and eventually it will stop hurting as much, but they stay in our hearts forever. but time will help, and i wish you the best of luck with ur future, and remember, there are plenty more fish in the sea, and that no guy is worth ur tears. bye bye, good luck
Ben

not sure if anyone mentioned this buttt, ok, we want ya to get back on track in your life, first of all school is comin up so just slowly start preparing yourself for that, go shop a bit, DO NOT SIT IN YOUR OWN ROOM THINKING, k you 'HAVE TO' occupy yoursle, go out with your family for some kind of a picnic, go call your old friends that ya lost contact with, TALK TO THEM, tell them what happened, apologize to them, go hang out with them, go play some sports, just PLEASE DO NOT SIT AND JUST CRY ABOUT THIS, if you sit all by yourself doing nothing but just thinking about this and crying, it will get worse and worse, what you gotta do is GO HAVE FUN, enjoy your life, GO LIVE

sorry for gettin so emotional :)

- TC