Help...

Okay....well, I need flirting advice.

I don't know how to flirt. lol ok listen. Well there are these girls at my school who get guys and get attention. I am not one of them though. They can dance, they are 'filled out" if ya know what I mean. I am jealous of them because whenever me and them are at a party they get all the guys. they are my friends and all ya know.

But, Is it because I don't like to dance slutty?? Is it because I don't hang all over the guys?? I just like to be nice to guys and stuff. ( and that's not working) But, I don't wanna come off as just a friend type or just one of the guys! I wanna be known as fun, and actually know how to flirt without coming off as slutty or too shy. I have guys that like me, but everytime at a party they go for the outgoing, clinging, whore dancing, girls. WHY!? I guess I am not a party girl! But, could any of yall, guys and girls, give me some tips for flirting?! Thanx bunches!

u dnt have 2 b like these other galz jus 2 get guyz attention jus show that ur confident, show ur intrested, give lotz of eye contact. thats the only advice i can think of jus now hope it helpz
lv dirrty angel x

I don't want to be like them. I just don't wanna be known as a shy lil girl who is just friends with the guys. I just need a lil help getting started. lol

yeah, my friends and my parents say that I should act confident...How do i show that I am confident though?

For one I am not a dork but I am kind of shy...lol. Im just known as the bitchy, funny, nice to be friends kind of girl. second of all, all the girls who dance at my school (you know the kind of chicks that the guys love) dance like a whore...you know shakin and leg humpin. Lastly, I have no confidence, I can't dance...I don't want to risk looking like a fool. (see I have no confidence in myself to actually say that I have confidence in myself...if that makes sense...that sounded stupid BUT O WELL!) Like my original post was suppose to attract was HOW DO YOU FLIRT WITH A GUY!? I smile at them and stuff...it's all them damn popular chicks who get the guys! I am just a simple pretty, tall, brunette girl. Still how do I flirt with the guys!

I just want some simple tips, no lecture...just a set of tips.

The only tips I have gotten are....
1.Be confident (which I still don't know how to do)
2.Make eye contact
3.Compliment them

And that's it...Forget the dancing thing. I am not dancing...I just need a flirting weapon to replace the skill is dancing that I do not have. lol

I also need some conversation skills...I get boring after a while. So it is always a dead silence moment. I need some tips on conversation subjects also.

Ugh, it's getting late and I am getting mean...lol Please help me with some tips, and thanx for the tips that I have gotten so far.

flirting just comes naturally! if u like the guy then it just shows..thats how it works..most girls go for the twirling of the hair or having googly eyes...just smile..its the best way to get his attention!!! :)

Yeah thanx! Last year i used to call myself ugly and stuff..(I went thrugh a bad depression faze)...so How do I make I make up for that? Like when will I ever get the chance to redeem myself and call myself pretty to get the positive vibe flowin?? BUt thanx for the tips so far!

AWW thanx! lol that was great!

It won't let me comment on there....Don't ask why because I really don't know! But, anyways thanx for all your help! lolz UGh I'm bored...

dont dance slutty or whatever the reason ur not getting guys is becayse all guys r jerks and looking for the easiest gurl to get "some" from

Very true! I am glad that you said that! You don't seem like one of those guys! Good for you Brian! Very Truthful!