~*~Adam~*~

thanks everyone for being so nice and helping me out with everything...but something else has come up..I was dating this guy(lets call him adam)and we were really good friends and everything..things were great,other than the fact that i was always gone at dance or cheerleading..or something just seemed to come up. well after we broke up we were still really good friends and talked about going out again. well yesterday i find out that he is dating some girl that doesnt really get along with me..what should i do? i really like him i do, but i dont think i can let myself be vulnerable for another heartbreak..what should happen?

i have no clue what to tell you

hey

ok, it seemed like you didnt really have a lot of time for him and you didnt explain why you broke up but I assume that you broke up cuz you werent spending a lot of time together and prolly you made him miss you too much and then maybe he thought you dont wanna be with him and maybe you werent ready for a relationship or sumfin of that kind cuz I bet you made him feel avoided/ignored.

ok what to do now, well everyone will reply saying 'ohh go tell him how you feel towards him its the right thing', the thing is, you have to show him that you always have time for him and no matter what pops up or if you are apart or together, you will always be there for him, I know its hard cuz he is datin a girl that you hate, but if you wanna be with him, first weel duhhh, you gotta tell him, girl, and also you two gotta talk and it wouldve been a good thing if ya explained why you broke up but if ya broke up cuz ya werent spendin a lot of time together, you really gotta sacrifice sumfin for him, and I dunno ya said 'gone at dance or cheerleading' hmm ya put goin to dances (if ya mean dances = kinda parties) and havin fun before him, I dunno there... spend more time together, and go get him