can yoy help me guys?

  • nandini
    18 years ago

    well i love someone much and he too love me.we want to marry.but the problem is that my parents are not accepting the guy due to caste problems..am from an indian family and at my place,they are strict about traditions.me i love my boyfriend lot..i cnt live without him...i dnt know wat i should do?let him go..or stop him...plz advice me!!!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    How old are you?

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    aw.. dat suxx.. i think, if you really love him, you should try as hard as you can to get your parents to agree.. and do you believe strongly in the caste system? because if you dont.. then it doesn't really matter very much does it? you can just move to another area.. but.. if you have any doubts that you don't love him.. i wouldn't take this any further..

  • Lady Vengeance
    18 years ago

    I agree with jessy very much. If you love someone so fully you should not let it be swept away from you. soem people only find love once in their entire life. I eally hope things work out for you. it must be sooo mentally saddening to have no idea as to what to to...
    -Suzie J

  • Timeless Hopeful
    18 years ago

    Chaste is a tradition in Indian culture, let me guess you are warrior chaste or Brahmin chaste.

    I suggest you explain to your parents that you want to marry your boyfriend, if they do not understand, you can legally make your own decisions. It is up to you...

  • nandini
    18 years ago

    hey u rite am from brahmin caste....

    i did explain but my family are strict about caste...
    i try wat u told me.thnxs.al least u understand wat i said...

  • nandini
    18 years ago

    thnx dear fro ur advice...i try c if i can stop him before its late.