*confused*

i have been with this dude named micheal for 2 months now and for the last 3weeks he has been going thru a lot like his bestfriend dying and him and his g~pol fighting(he lives with his g~pol, he raised micheal) and so now he wonts to just be friend and just start all over but he still tells me he loves me and he dont wont to hurt me no more thats why we are not back togeather and i just dont now what to do cus i relly do love him but its hard just to be friends even no it is like we still go out ever time were togeather...he also told me there was no one else and he wont find no one else but i am still scared he will find some one else....so what should i do??should i just let it be and just see what happens or should i try to do somthing to get us back togeather???

If you don't trust Micheal, then sorry I suggest you leave him fast.

What is g-pol?

You really need to work on your grammer and spelling if you someone to help you.

Ok first of all. IF you do really love him. Trust should go along with it, if you're not willing enough to trust the guy you love, then its going to fall apart.

Second of all, it sounds like he's been through a lot of tough s*&^ so you cant blame him for just being friends for now, he needs time to get himself back together, and if you're truly in love with this guy, then you'll be more than willing to help him go through this, asking him to be your boyfriend if hes this torn apart, is just plain selfish. So I say, let it be .. take the time, trust him and see how it goes.

Otherwise, you move on, theres no other way. But if you're committed to this guy and love him as much as you say you do, then you'll try your best to help him out. Just let him know you're there for him.

Take Care, Gd Luck.
Serena xxx

hey ere ok..
look when someone has gone through something like an illness or someone very close to them dying it kinda takes every inch of them to deal with it and there is NO extra room for anyone else.....
i no wot im chatting bout i were ill and its so easy to push ppl away when things get too hard and he needs u to be his shoulder to cry on.. some one he knows he can call up and say hey i need to talk.. or i need a cuddle..with no strings attached.. he needs someone he knows he can trust...

if you ask him to get with you now itll not help him.. itll turn bad and you might think itll bring you both closer becasue you were there to support him but really to be honest he wood be using you and once he is over being angry and etc and dealing with everything he wont need you.. so dont say i want to be with you to him because it really isnt the right time!

umm u gotta show him that your there for him when ever he needs you.. yeah he prob does love you but he aint got enough room for you yet!! believe me sweet! i no i were there in the same place he is in right now!!! i got hurt and so did my ex!!

umm but i say just be there for him as a FIREND... umm and if you 2 can get together after he has got himslef back on track then u can.. but you gotta learn to trust him and he had to learn to trust you too....

dont rush him..
take care yeah and just be his friend right now!