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Umm. Not being allowed to go to a party is a little harsh. But I have never been in a relationship and I'm 15 . . personally I don;t see the point in being in a relationship just for the sake of it. Is there a reason your parents won't let you go out to parties . .I mean, theres boys at your school right? So why is it any different. . .

have you even told them that you have a boyfriend?
i dont see how you're going to be able to convince your parents.
parents worry about their children, its natural, dont chuck a hissy fit at them, because in the end all they're doing is looking out for you, which is a sign of love and care, so be greatful in a way.

But yeah have a heart to heart talk with them, to see if you can agree on a better kind of situation

Take Care, Gd Luck.
xxx

Well think from the possitive side too..i mean they are just trying to protect you..thts a good thing..but i think its too much protection..you should explaine your parents how you feel!and ask them if they dont trust you...try to persuade them....if you dont know how to do it....then...have fun..but im telling you..try to explaine witout being mean....

my parents are almost the same way, they don't let me go to places like to movies and to boys houses and stuff, guys can call my house, but they make sure i either stay within sight, or i tell them EVERYTHING after, and it really stinks... about the party, i wouldn't make a big deal about it because if you do than they may look at it as your weakness and continue to hold it against you, i would just tell then you understand and respect their decision but that you would be very grateful if the next time they were more considerate of your opinion and age.
**meggie**

I think it is rather unfair maybe ur parents are trying to protect u but its only natural and around this age these kind of things happen and its not like your going to doing anything extreme with guys.

I understand how you feel and it may be hard to deal with some times but be THANKFUL your parents are the way they are. Don't "hate" them or be mad at them for it. You're blessed to have parentst that care so much!!

that is really unfair...to tell them this you should have a chat with them...tell them you are growing up and you are gonna like boys and wanna go out with them and your gonna wanna do fun stuff like girl/boy parties..tell them to trust you

I do think that dateing at 13 is really stupid. I wouldn't let my kid do it. I'm happy that my parents were responsible enough not to let me date at that age. I didn't have a real relationship till I was 16. I wasn't allowed to be alone with a guy till then. I do think that the party thing and the calling thing is a little unfair and a little to much, but I agree with your parents on the no dateing thing.

I have 2 words for you....DOUBLE DATE! Tell your parents that your going out to a movie with some friends, and just go.

Trust me, from experience, double dating is way more fun, there is less pressure and THE MORE THE MERRIER!

God Bless,
!Mallory!

i think it's unfair not being allowed to have any guys call your house or even going to a party. as long there is parental supervision at the party, your parents should be fine with it. I'm thirteen and never had a boyfriend before, being single kicks @$$! i do hang out with some of my guy friends till like 9 at night but we dont stay in my house. we go to the park and stuff. you should definetly sneak once just to get the experience.

Sluvious:
'remember their names, write them in a book, and 5-6 years from now tell us how many of them got pregnant, how many dropped out of school, how many used drugs, got drunk and how many ended up dead or with an std.'

I guess making an extreme could get the point across, but that is taking it a little too far. I have many friends who used to go to parties, have boyfriends and all that at the age of 14, now they're older, only one is pregnant but with a guy she's been seeing for 3 years, and they're happy. None of them take drugs and none of them are alcoholics, and they are definately not dead - quite the opposite. I don't know how many have STI's but most of them are still virgins. Not being allowed to go to a party at a friends house is a little harsh, her parents could at least let her go until 9, so that she's not there late enough for anything to happen! Anyway - theres my view.

Peace. [Sole]