Help Plz

  • candi
    18 years ago

    I need help. My bf and i have been going out for the last 3 months and my ex bf wants to go back out with me. He keeps resuring me to break up with my bf but i don't want to. i love my bf very much and i don't want to break his heart. I just want a lil advice from people on how i should tell my ex that i don't want to be with him anymore and i am happy with the person i have now. Thanxs
    candi

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    You should pull him aside and tell him you love your b/f now. Tell him that you love your b/f and just because he wants you back, doesn't mean you're going to take him back. Let him know that you don't have feelings for him and your happy with your b/f and that's final. You just need to tell him how you feel and hopefully he'll understand. Good luck.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Be honest I guess but not to the point that its hurting your ex. Inform him that you are very happy in your current relationship, that things didn't work out between you previously and your now happier in a new relationship and if cared for you as much as he says he does...he would accept and respect that and let you continue to be happy building this new relationship...

    Seems like a typical case of "you don't know what you have got till its gone and until someone else has got it" to me :o)

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    Tell your ex, that the guy you're with now, makes you happy and that what happened between you and him(your ex) is in the past, it might've been great while you were together, but you've moved on, and maybe its time for him to let go.

    Take Care. Gd Luck.
    Serena xxx