My friend and I like the same person...only she doesn't know tha

  • Salem
    18 years ago

    My friend recently told me she likes this guy, whom I like. And of course I didn't tell her that I like him. But now she flirts with him majorly and lots of stuff...and I hate it, but what should I do? Find someone else? Tell her?

  • flirtaholic2010
    18 years ago

    Im not in the same position so heres wut id do.... I would tell her and if you feel like she desirves him more then be happy for her if not then ull have to deside Friend Or GUY??

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    ok girl if she ends up gettin him it is all ur fault you should be strait with her then let her kno that who gets him gets him

    and don't make a fight over it unless u wanna lose a friend kk?

    diva

    ps. if you dont' wanna lose a friend you and her need to get together with the guy ......and tell him strait up waht is goin on and let him decide wat to do that is what you should do........let him pic and let him know that no feelings will be hurt and they will all remain friends and be happy for each other

  • Cagil
    18 years ago

    hey...Is she a good friend of yours...if she is..then you should really tell her..cauze someday if something happens..she will find out..and she will get hurt cauze you didnt tell her..if she is only a friend..then you should still tell her..and tell her how you feel...i am sure you or she will understand each other...oh and..if its easy to forget that guy..then do a favor to your friend and forget about him..

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Tell her. If she's agood friend, she will understand and will respect that. If she is a true friend, she won't let a guy get between your friendship. Talk to her and tell her how you feel. Good luck.

  • Emily
    18 years ago

    ^^I agree. If you tell her, maybe she'll be a little less harsh on flirting right in front of you, but you can't blame her right now. She doesn't know she's hurting your feelings.

  • xღxBeckyxღx
    18 years ago

    You need to tell her, she's not going to know shes upsetting you if you don't tell her..she's not a mind reader dearie! I'm sure she'll take a step back with the whole flirting scenario..just telll herrrrrr