ok need advice

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    alrighty now i have written bout my situation b4 but let me fill you guys in

    my first bf and i meet back up after a long while.
    we have fun
    old feelings come back
    he asks me out
    we only broke it cause he moved and we thought we could never see each other again
    he asks me out again
    i say yes under pressure
    i realized that it was just old memories coming back to me not feelings for him
    i don't wanna break his heart cause i can tell he still really likes me
    he bought me jewlry*expensive cause i caught him in the mall buying it

    wat do i do?
    how do i break it with him?
    should i breakit with him?
    HELP~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~

    DIVA

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    SERIOUSLY HELP ME~!~

  • Barbara Jean
    18 years ago

    tell him how u feel..

  • Void
    18 years ago

    This is something you gotta handle for yourself. Maybe give it more time to see if it is him you like and not the memories - but if you're positive that you're only with him out of memories and you only said yes out of pressure - then break it now before you kill him later.
    I don't mean that to scare you, but the more you keep him hanging there the more he may like you, maybe love you...Love you enough to feel need for you one day. And if you break it off then - well... I'm sure you know.
    Sorry I can't say much more. Best of luck though.

  • Han84
    18 years ago

    i agree no one can give u the answer to this one.. u kinda already no wot u should do but u just want someone to say the same answer u already no!!
    i no how u feel i were like that ages ago with my ex.. and i were kinda in your situation but my best mate shock it out of me lol he told me straight.. i ll never forget his words to me lol

    "hannah just shut up and do it.. we all no like u do.. u dont really wanna be with him.. your remembering the good times you had but that isnt real... now snap out of it.. he also cheated on you.. do u trust him..." lol

    ill never forgetr em and u no what i saat down an i said lk this aint working for me... it isnt u its me.. i hate that phrase.. it isnt u its me.. grrrr...

    plus saying yes due to under pressure isnt good really... it kinda already shows then that it isnt right to be with him again....
    but u kinda just gotta wk out wot u want...and how u feel
    but no one at all can tell u the answer to this one uunfortionally!!

    take care yeah and i hope ive helped..

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    hey thanx you guys you have really helped i guess there is no easy way to do it i just go for it.......he he thanx