PPLEEAASSEE HELP I DUNNO WHAT TO DO!!!

  • Mariah
    18 years ago

    ok i have this guy who likes me but he doesnt exactly live where i live and i have hung out with him a couple of times and i dont know if i should go out with him or not cuz of what my friends would say, because hes 3 years older than me and he doesnt want sex he just gets along with me really good, and hes really sweet and nice and we've talked on the phone ALOT and he says he really likes me AND LOVES ME.. and wants to go out with me but idk if i should. everybody is saying i should listen to my heart,....but it doesnt always help....what should i do????? im not sure if i want to go out with him cuz of WHAT MY FRIENDS ARE GONNA SAY BECAUSE WHEN I REALLY LOVED MY LAST BOYFRIEND THEY MADE FUN OF ME FOR IT CUZ HE DIDNT LIVE WHERE I LIVE AND WAS A COUPLE YEARS YOUNGER......PLEASE HELP

  • Daranged_psycopath...wholovescheer
    18 years ago

    ok honey you must be a real blind person. no you are a follower. ok if you care so much wat your friends say then you migtt as well let them pic for you wat guy you go with. you might as well let them do everything for you pic ur bf pic ur clothes run your life. you have a choice and it is none of their business to interfere. so the question is DO YOU LIKE HIM? if ou do then leave it at that. let your friends know it is your life and they cannot run it. tell them to leave their comments to themselves.. you will never learn from your mistakes if YOU don;t make them. do you understnad i am not saying that your decision is a mistake. i am just saying. i mean hey ne guy tat don't want sex.......go for it shoot........

    just make your own decisions ok?
    don't let ne one run your life for you or you will never get to do ne thing you want you can never know wat you want.

    good luck

    diva

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    if you love/like him as much as you say you do.
    its simple. you'd try to be with him.. go out with him, if it makes you happy then thats all it takes, whos to criticise you for someone who makes you happy?

    Maybe they havent loved/liked anyone as much as you have, so maybe thats the reason behind the laughs that they make.

    Take care,
    Serena

  • Mariah
    18 years ago

    thanx that helps a little......