What to do...

Me and a boy were like best friends for ages. he really liked me but i had been hurt once and i didnt want to get hurt again so isad lets just be friends. he started going out with this other girl and we saw each other everyday and talked on the fone til 3 oclock in the morning nearly every night. he used to say he loved me, even though he had a girlfriend, and id say it back. i really did mean it. i loved him but at the time i ddnt really realise it. we had a fight and now he only speaks to me when he has to. i really love him but he doesnt feel the same way anymore. it hurts so mcuh to see him with his girlfriend and i tell him im happy for him but deep down im crying. i want him back. he was always there for me, i trusted hm, i loved him and now hes gone. i dont know what to do. how do i get over him.

aww.. well, hav you talked to him about the fight you had? i mean.. hav you guyz said sorry and stuff.. bcuz then at least you guyz can b friends.. i think you should move on.. because he has.. i kno you weren't to kno, but you really should not hav let him go.. neway.. best of luck!
jessy

It's like a fart...it'll pass on its own. Don't dwell on it too much or you'll end up crapping your pants.

//Ari\\

Well perhaps he just needs some time to let it blow over? What happened in this fight to have it be so horrible that it could end that strong of a friendship? I don't know personally, but maybe you should think about the fight. Did you say somthings you didn't mean, did you hurt him (emotionally)? Maybe if you express your sorrow for the fight and how much you miss him in combination with waiting a little longer (most boys can't hold grudged very long) and see what happened. Good luck hun.

-Tainted

almost the same thing happened to me isnt it hard to know that he is prolly telling his g/f that he loves her instead of you... i always tell myself you dont know what you have until its gone you know its so easy to have someone fi they are willing but it is so hard to get them back after they have thier mind set on something different ... just wait it out it will go back to being the same between you two of you were as close as you say he is most deffinetly still thinking about you he is jsut hurt but he still loves you try to talk to him about it to

sticky promlem....