Love..?

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Okay this is sorda a long story..here it goes..First off I am a lesbian..yea..anyways..I met a girl through a friend..we were together for 9 months! She told me she was a lesbian..which I was okay with that because I really don't like dating "bi's" because they usually end up wanting a guy. Well last Saturday she emailed me and said "Sorry, but I have feelings for this guy and I think he likes me to" and I was like wtf? I thought you were a lesbian. She said No I'm Bi. I can understand changing..but she didn't tell me. We were together for 9 months. And she said she doesn't love me anymore. I have no clue what I am going to do. I already cut myself really bad (I regret it now) It was really bad. My friends said it was worse then before. I just hate that she in a way lied to me. If I can get any advice I am up for it. Thanks

  • kim
    18 years ago

    ceing that im the onli nice person 2 giv u advice here goes!

    well jus b careful wid cuttin i bin there 2 !nd ull get ova her! r u in high skool? coz if yes then ppl dnt no wot they want k so dnt fil 2 dissapointed for yet. 9 months is a long tym! nd u shuld b happy thqat u stayed together for that long! well done!! well i int rily sure wot else 2 say!
    but if u wanna chat or anyfin plz send me an email or add me on msn
    xoxwalking_contradictionxox@hotmail.co.uk

    kim
    xx
    ull be ok!

  • Emily
    18 years ago

    If she doesn't love you anymore, don't hurt yourself over the situation any longer. Just move on, there's other people in the world.

    Good Luck!

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Good advice Missy

    Give yourself time to heal, but trust me you will learn to love again - relationships will continue to grow and deepen as you do as a person but mya dvice is to take sometime outta the whole dating scene to allow your self to grow and learn from this experience and then open yourself up to the possibility of finding someone new - who can return the love you feel mutually. be sure not to label everyone by defining them as bi or lesbian - they are just people, like you are and give them and yourself the chance to be happy with out defintion or labelling :o)

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    Move on with youre life, and be happy!

  • Devisay
    18 years ago

    Hey well to tell you the truth is that iam not o.k with people that are lesbian but in your cause you shold pray to God and ask him to help you change and move and help you find a feeling for a men not a women God help you