i thought being honest was for the best!!

Right friends can last for life but boyfriends come and go so often and then who do you go to your friend so what i am say is that it is better to have your friend aas a friend than have him for a short while as a boyfriend then lose him for good
do you understand???

Wow Im going through almost the same thing. Please go read the topic "please help me"
It has alot to do with what you wrote. My advice is, stay with your boyfriend. If you all were meant to break up, it wouldn't hurt and you wouldnt have second thoughts. If your best friend has been your friend this long, I guarantee you he can wait until you are ready to break up with your boyfriend.. but the problem is how are you going to put aside the feelings you have for your friend.. Grr... Im going through the same crap.

Take a break from guys. If you really wanted to be with your ex, you wouldn't be in this situation. You would know you want to be with him, and you wouldn't question your feelings at all. Take a break and see how you feel. If you really want to be with him, you will know. You did the right thing by telling him. Being honest is always the best thing, but i think you should let him know you don't want to be in a relationship at this moment. That's all i can really say.

it seems to me, like you don't want to be with either. Go find another fish.

hey.. i no wot u mean sweety! couple months ago i got really close to me best lad mate!! he helped me thor a hard time like ido with him! thats what we are meant to do!...
i went off the rails and he got me back on track!! i i started to see him in a nother light coz i knew he likes me more than a mate but has known that i only see him as me mate! um yeah so i started to get confused by my feelings.. they were running wild!.. umm i couldnt go near him or spk to him!

then i got hurt at wk by droppinga pack of tiles on my foot and couldnt walk.. he saw it all happen.. he came to the recuse and u no wot i saw him back in the light i used to see him becaus i thought i want u forever not just for a lil bit! he means too much to me!

so yeah i think keep your friend as a friend! its beta to have him for ever than only a lil time coz if u over step that line of friendship to more then u wont get itt bk to a friendship if things dont wk out!!

i think your ex bf is being gd botu this all coz my ex always said that mark me best mate ikes me and that my ex has compition! where he never did!!!!
umm so maybe sit down nd think bout what u truely want!

take care

I agree boyfriends do come and go! I like thefact that you told your boyfriend--ex--cuz most of the girls just keep 'em to 'em self! But you didn't I really like that! Anyway, I think it's better for you to have him as a friend. To tell you the truth That happened to me a long time ago and I ended going out with my guy-friend that I've know since I was 5! And like we ended up breaking up cuz we didn't have that connection as we thought we did and now we're not speaking with eachother cuz he thought or thinks that i cheated on him while we were going out, which is NOT TRUE but watever! Keep him as a friend better, but I mean that's just my opinion! Take care!
~*~Cindy or ♥Dangerously In Love♥~*~