Confused....

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    Ok last night was my prom...and I went with a friend...who I have no romatic feel for...and that is the reason my boyfriend still let me go with him...Well the guy I have like for a long time...and am kinda connected to....We ended up in a coner alone...and we kinda Fulled around...Well the problem with that is I know I have to tell my boyfriend...or just break up with him...I want to tell him and Let him decide if we should break up...but one of my really good friends said...since my boyfriend is so into me...that i should just break up with him and not tell him...what do you think I should do...

    Help
    ~Emma
    srry so long

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    thanks....

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Hi Emma

    I do think you should tell him but I think you should reassess how much you really care for your boyfriend knowing that you have cheated on him in th first place - I mean does he deserve that?

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    be honest

  • Kelc
    18 years ago

    yeah just tell him...as hard as it may be in the long run it'll help so much

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    i ended up telling him...we are no longer dating...and the guy i cheated on him with wont talk to me...i feel cheap and used...and broken hearted...i am stupid...

    Thanks
    Emma

  • Emma
    18 years ago

    i guess i did...i wish i wouldnt have learned it the hard way though...

    Emma

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    It does question.. how much you love/like/care for your boyfriend considering you were fooling around with a guy who you've " liked for a long time" ?

    so you're basically saying... the guy you played around with at prom.. you have liked for ages.. but yet you have a boyfriend who has no idea of this?

    talk about double crossing.. and being unfaithful..im sorry but it is REALLY unfair for your boyfriend, who likes you so much, and for you to do that kind of thing.

    Anyway Gd Luckxxx

  • saralis
    18 years ago

    Well .. its obvious you dont like your boyfriend that much.. i think you should break up with him & tell him why..

    Everyone deserves an explanation