~ Perfect Situation ~

ok well i like this boy..well i did..i really actually grew feeling 4 him..but he had a g/f that was really close to me...and we've been friends for over 10 yrs. me and her b/f have liked each other for a month now..and last nite she just found out that i liked him she read the txt messages i left him on his phone..all the messages said was to call me nothing bad or ne thing..but he never called me so i stopped txting him....She dosen't know that he liked me 2...she only knows my side of it all..not his..i don't think i can take it..i mean i hate it..!!!!! it sucks..and i just wanna quit

well let me tell you first hand i've been in a similar situation...obviously everyone's different, so i can't say "i know how u feel" but i can give u some advice. If at all you get a chance to talk to him be like "hey u need to tell her your side of the story or i will!" and then tell your friend that she needs to confront her bf. Tell her if she wants the truth then she needs to talk to him...knowing girls..yea she'll ask him about it. The next thing is you have to think...what is more important to you? would you really be willing to loose a best friend over a guy who will date someone as he is having feelings for another girl? and you need to ask yourself, "would he do that to you too?" could you REALLY trust him? is it REALLY worth loosing a 10 year friendship over? hard questions...(i know) but those are the things you need to really think about. Who would stick by you thru thick and thin, till the very end? him or her? that's the most important question....good luck....

omfg um ok im just going to be honest...i don't think your freind for over 10 years is that dear to you if you liked her boyfreind if she knew and was okay with it it would be different but i think you should stop liking him ( or just act like it) for your freinds sake....