Just in need for a lil advice

  • candi
    18 years ago

    My parents separated last august because my father was abusing my mom and us kids. we are currently in the process of trying to get the divorce finalized. my dad says he never did anything but we all know he did. Court is on monday the 8th and i have to testify i am really scared... I don't knwo what to do.
    candi

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    True that Sunny

    Be honest its for your and your families safety, the abuse of women and children is so wrong on so many accounts. I know you feel a certain obligation to your dad which is understandable and your fear is completely justified BUT where was his love and loyalty to you and your family thru all this

  • ŘÅÇĦ♥
    18 years ago

    When thing I always think about when I could have taking a kid to court for sexual harrassment and i didnt because i was too scared.. i regret it everyday.. I think well maybe because my actions of Not doing anything he will do that to someone else and I dont want them to go threw what i did.

    You know the right thing to do... Do it! I know it isnt that easy but you half to.. Gool Luck

    Rach ♥

  • Allison
    18 years ago

    I think that you should be honest and tell the truth. I think that if you do everything is going to turn out for the better.
    ~*~Good Luck with the trial~*~

  • Lexi
    18 years ago

    I think you should just be honest seems like the best thing to do to meh! Good luck with the trial thing.

  • Lollypop
    18 years ago

    I know how you feel. I have to testify on how my uncle and my brother-in-law molested and almost raped me. Stay Strong!!

  • Unconformist
    18 years ago

    This has to be difficult for you. But you know what you have to do. You've got to testify so that you're dad can't hurt your mom or you any longer. Just take a deep breath in before you sit at the stands or whatever, and relax. Just let i all flow out! Tell what the judge needs to know, let it go.
    hearts
    ashley