why does my friend get picked on :(

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    My friend got picked on today at school and the kid called her a fat a$$ and everything else and well um then he said she was a b*tch and pushed her down the stairs. I just want my friend to know I'm here for her but she don't wanna tell her parents or anyone but my mom and me and I'm worried he is gonna hurt her again.

    Please help me,
    Amanda

  • ŘÅÇĦ♥
    18 years ago

    Whatever you do - TELL SOMEONE! Make people listen to you and don’t take no for an answer. You have the right to live without fear. Don’t think that you're being a “grass” - why should you do a bully a favour by keeping quiet? Bullying thrives on silence and secrecy.

    Hope I helped

    ♥ Rach

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    hey Rach,

    I plan on going to the office tomorrow and taking my friend with me thanks for ur help

    Amanda

  • ŘÅÇĦ♥
    18 years ago

    That is good! I hope everything works out and this kid gets what is coming for him! Good Luck!!

    Rach

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    thanks he possibility could get suspended and I hope he learns his lesson
    Amanda

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Oh kids can be soooo horrible can't they - shes got you as a friend at least shes not facing this alone and has your support - firstly DONT retaliate that just gives them more reason to pick and pick, I would try to ignore it...because eventually they'll get bored and pick on someone else.

    Then again thinking back as kid I didn't do that one day I got sick of all the crap and clear smacked this cheeky cow in the nose, and belted her a few more times, pretty soon people shut up - though I dont want to encourage violence it did work for me :o)

  • Lexi
    18 years ago

    OMFG!! I think you should tell someone if she's getting pushed down the stairs....or just kick there a$$!

  • Amanda Renee
    18 years ago

    ok well he almost got fired from work its cool and well then he is being a dumba$$ and well its almost settled we took it to the office.

    Amanda

  • Lollypop
    18 years ago

    I hate bullies with a passion. The only reason he did that was to make himself feel stronger and bigger. It discusts me. Whoever this guy is you just need to tell him to f-off and stop his shit. Don't give up hope because I kno God will get him in the end and he will go to Hell. Stay strong!! Love Ya!!
    *Laura*