*~Scared is what I am~*

OK... I'm a little bit scared actually not a little bit I mean a WHOLE HECK OF A LOT. My friend is going to try to kill herself and I'm really really scared she is going to be 21 soon and she has a 2year old little boy... and she is saying that her little boy would be better off without a mom and would be better with her own mom and I'm just scared to death and I told her she can't do this to her son or me and she said, "nobody will miss me I'm just worthless and not wanted anymore." I just need some help coping with this and I don't know how I'm gonna handle this its to hard to deal with and I just want some basic help so can you help me please and I don't know what to do nad I just wanna cry...

Amanda

Tell her to stop being so damn irresponsible. She has a son, who will wonder where his mum has gone, and grow up knowing his mother has committed suicide. It will screw him up.

just try to be her friend, having a good friend who shows you the good things in live is worth alot ,

This is a really tough situation and well my advice is to tell her family of what she plans to do. And if she lives far away from them give em a call because most of the time that ppl want to commit suicide is because they think that they're family dont love them at all! Also give her reason of why she shouldn't do such a thing, everyone has problems in life but we all eventually deal with them but death is not the answer, for what would happen to her kids will they end up with strangers taking care of them? Things like that will affect them and you should tell her that and try to be there for her when she needs it the most! Well hope I helped ... if u wanna keep talking e-mail me at: desaristar@aim.com

I've talked to her and she said she will not do it and she can't hurt her son like that and does anyone else have advice for me ??

Be there for her, and help her when she needs help

Ok well thanks to everyone who has respond to my thing I am still really worried we live in two different places and well the thing that is scaring me

Try and get her to go see a councler or something. They really do help you feel better

Doi ant of u ppl cum frm Newport South Wales on this decusion board if u do email me on 07jestep@sjhs.newport.sch.uk thanks Jess

Are you illiterate? Can you not type an illegable sentence. And no, I think ill pass on adding thanks.

I thought the British were classy and learned.

Ok is that even topic i don't understand that