Im a stupid beeeeeeeeeep

hey
ive been going out for this guy for like ummmm not long at all and guess what i just did, i lent him $150!!!
He said he really needed the money and he wouldnt say why but just cause he realli needed it. Why the hell did i do that!?! Now my family think im doing drugs or something. He makes me do stuff .... like he dosnt force me but when i look at him i cant say no :(
Arghhhhhhhhhhhh im the most stupidest b&!^@ ever!!!!

Well, sounds to me that he is using the money for drugs, I mean he is asking for money but not telling you what it is for...Personally, If he doesn't give the money back, I would start to worry, also If he trys to borrow money again ask him what for, and if he doesn't reply...I would cut the relationship off, someone that can't tell his g/f the truth about something or talk about stuff like why he is asking for money, heck I would dump him....but that is just me, you have your own opinion. Best of luck to you.

Peace, Joe

I totally agree with Joe and ken, this guy really does'nt sound genuine at all, just be careful of what your getting yourself mixed up in. Its nice to see that there are still some genuine fellas out there.;-)

Take care, Lise

kick him to the curb
you should also try and ask him to pay you back
hopefully this doesnt turn too messy!
good luck

You should be more careful when lending money to actually see what its being used for after all it is YOUR money I would have happily lent it to him on the proviso he was honest about what he intended to do with the cash...