My friend

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    So, i have this friend....and she was just recently molested, but she is too scared to tell anyone else or her friends, her family...she told me, and i dont know what to do! She is trying to stay happy, she is trying to act like it didnt happen..and i just dont know, does anyone have any advice?!??!?!!?!?

  • jessie
    18 years ago

    i agree with ken.
    but i have to ask..is this friend really, you?
    if it is you don't have to admit it.
    it's just usually when people say things like.
    "i have this friend...."
    they're talking about themsevles. if it is you.
    please do what ken said..if it is in fact your friend that was molested..tell them to do what he said.

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    what is the difference b/w rape, molested, and assaulted?!?!?!

  • jessie
    18 years ago

    rape is unwanted intercourse
    molestation is unwanted touching
    assualt is either unwanted touching or verble sexual abuse..or just abuse.

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    Oohhhhhhhhh i got it!!!! Okay

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    Ok, well now i tried to talk to her, and make her see that she needs to tell, but she just can't she is too scared, so now what?!?!?!?!

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    Ken, i can't do that!!! like REALLY i can't!!!

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    Yeah, but i do not think that is going to happen...so i'm out of ideas now!!!

  • Nelle
    18 years ago

    Okay so i talked to her once more and she kind of almost gave in and was gonna tell someone, but now i dont know...maybe im just saying the wrong things to her

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    If she nearly gave in, keep talking to her. Whatever you're doing is obviously working.