I need some advice....

  • Mallory
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago and he has turned into a completely diff. person. I still want to be friends with him but he is making things difficult. I need to know what I should do. He hit me and calls me down....But I still want him bach..I stil love him!
    HELP!!!

    !Mallory!

  • Lisa
    18 years ago

    Its really bad for two people to stay in a physically abusive relationship, it really wont work out, I know from past experiences, they only way a relationship like that will end is either someone really badly hurt or even worse. A relationship like that can turn the victim into a very sad and withdrawn person. At the end of the day no one can tell yo what to do....you need to be strong enough to make your own decisions, but please make sure that its for the best. I really wish you luck with this one.

    God Bless, Lise

  • lOVER
    18 years ago

    If He hit you?
    he's not worth it.
    sorry, but if hes physically hurting you, then thats not the way to go..

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    , Leave him while you still can. Hitting you was unacceptable and staying with him is an unnecessary risk. Women who stay in abusive relationships usually cant leave them because its too late. You need to leave this guy in the dusk, theres so many other boy’s in the world that are worth dating and don’t abuse women. Your in danger and you ARE putting your life at risk.

  • cari
    18 years ago

    if he hit u, hes not worth it - he obviously doesnt respect u forget him hun n move on!

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Move on. Once they change that's it. You love th4e guy he used to be, but he has changed and you need to face that. You will find a guy who will treat you right. He's just a jerk trying to fit in. Try an move on. It's for the best.

  • Jessica
    18 years ago

    Under absolutely NO circumstances does a man have any right to hit a woman. Get away as fast as you can, and find a guy that respects you. If this guy hit you in the first place, then he probably doesn't love you. Move on...

  • Mallory
    18 years ago

    Thx guys....alot..... I'm still having trouble understanding why this all happend. Everything was fine a month ago and then his mom got a hold of an e-mail i sent him and she thought i was pressuring him for sex! and she made him break up with me! now everytime i see her she stares me down like im a bad person. But honestly i never pressured him! he was the one who was pressuring me! He touched me everywhere and i let him....because i love him. Things are getting better though...he doesnt hit me aymore...I had a serious talk with him about hitting girls and theatened to tell his mom and he was pleading with me not to tell her. and i said that if he ever hit me again i was gonna go to the police and his parents and he hasnt done it since and we are still friends. We have our classic arguments about pointless stuff but thats the way we have always been. Thats the way we worked...we would fight and make up. So everything is going good. Thx alot....for everything guys.

    !Mallory!