supposed to be a secret....BUT

I wasn't raped but I was sexually abused by my ex, I didn't tell my friends they figured out that something was wrong the next day until they got me to tell them. My one "friend" rushed me to tell somebody when I wasn't ready to. She was angry for me, I never got to learn for myself. My ex kinda made me feel that he was truley sorry.

Now I've been angry at people and I think that was the reason why. My "friend" doesn't talk to me. And it's hard to talk about. Please do not rush your friend into something. Talk talk and more tlak to that person. A hug goes a long way. I never really got one but I know that might help.

To help would be to tell a counselor ive been through sexual harrasment.. it stinks.. If she doesnt tell soon or you dont tell she'll not only regret not telling but no one will belive her.. No one belived me.. just some of my friends.. And if she doesnt want to tell ask her if she wants it to happen to other girls.. and if still not tell yourself

Rach ♥

NO! YOU NEED to TELL an ADULT! It's NOT about rushing her.. It is about helping her so she can live her life as NORMAL as possable!!! You admitted she needed help get it for her!! ASAP

Rach

TELL AN ADULT!!

In many cases of rape or attempted rape, that person does it over and over again because he knows that his victims won't say anything. Stand up against him.

ask her if the both of u can tell a counselor TOGETHER. it's better than either of you going alone...and it also will be good emotional support.

Tell an adult. Trust me. Yes she will be mad at you for a bit, Because of the trust. But she will realise you did it to help. And she'll thank you. So just tell an adult.

`taleee xx