bianca
18 years ago
ok, i have known this guy i like since i was really little... he was my first kiss when i was 4. I am now in the same school as him and we have gotten really close in the past year. Him and his g/f broke up and he asked me out.... im only 15 and he just turned 18... ill be 16 this summer so theres like 3 years. My parents have a rult that i have to ask them b for i can date well i did and they wont give me a straight answer.... i have never given them a reason not to trust me, i dont lie to them and i dont do thigns behind their back, i have always been like this, so why wont they let me date himn? its not like im going to go screw him ... im not like that.... please give me some advice.....thanx |
Brigitte
18 years ago
I agree with ken, it could be him that they don't trust. 18 is a risky age to date when your at that age... My first b/f was when i was 15 and he was 18... He was a sweet heart and I loved him but eventually he started getting more and more persuaded by his friend to go a little farther sexualy. It was okay the first couple of months but then he started working full time jobs and being afraid of getting fired by his boss....... while i was worrying about math home-work and whether or not my best friend was crushing on my brother! I know it seems fine at first, and it is! You don't realize how different your life styles are untill you date! My advise is not to jump on this one! If you do i'm sure it will be really great but will sadly most likly not end right. This might be what your parents are thinking about so just please try and understand! I know what it's like.... You want to make your own choices on men and you want to be the one to say no on dating him after testing. But your parents are probably right! But whatever you choose darling, good luck! And if you ever need to talk to somone that was in your shoes at one time... I'm here! |