can you help me? anyone?

  • ♥kHarIsMa♥
    18 years ago

    i dont know what to do anymore....i love my ex boyfriend so much...weve been through so much together..we have a son together and all..but he now has a new girlfriend that he got with when i was two months pregnant...he loves her more than anything..but i love him more than words can even explain...i want to get over him so bad...but i just dont know how...iv tried to move on with my life...but its not as easy as it sounds...just looking at my son sometimes puts tears in my eyes cuz it reminds me of him...and i dont want to cry everytime i look at my son.. its not right...and its not fair to my son... please anyone...i need advice...can you help me...

  • ♥kHarIsMa♥
    18 years ago

    yea i do that...i remember all the bad times.. and all the bad memories...and now its like hes trying to rub his new girlfriend in my face or something... but whats hard is i also think about all the good times and all that we have been through... and lookin at my son only makes me think more... i wan to move on with my life so bad...but its just so hard...
    but thank you so much for givin the advice..i appreciate it...

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    It really is hard, espcially if you really love them. You just need to keep telling yourself that you will find a guy that will stay by your side and treat you with respect and love you no matter what. Another guy that is willing to be with you through the good and bad times is going to come along. Though it make take time and you may think nothing will get better, but it will. Sooner or later you are going to move on. Nobody can stop loving someone, but everyone can move on. It's good to think about all you shared, but you shouldn't dwell on it. These things happen. All you can do is try and get over him, but don't force yourself, that only makes the matter worse. Hope i helped. Good luck.

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    You should make a list of 10 good things and 10 bad things that will happen if you continue to think about him. It will balance your thoughts out and with any luck help you make the right choice. Hopefully there will be no good things of continuing to think about him. You have a son and he’s the only guy that should be on your mind right now. Clearly, he doesn’t love you anymore, and he’s so last year. I hope my advice was helpful. Good luck, and follow your heart