My Friend...

My friend's boyfriend is really destructive. He tried to sew his fingers together, he's cut himself, etc., and she used to be so happy. Today she was sticking needles in her skin, and he's affecting her too much. I really need her to stop, but when I talk to her about it she insists "She loves Him." How can I get it through her head?

Show her what a destructive man he really is. Even if she doesn't like to see it, its for the best, and she will understand in time.

He tried to sew his fingers together? That's never pleasant.

I suppose it isn't, she insists it didn't hurt, but there is no reason for her to hurt herself.