PLZ HELP ME I HAVE A REALLY BIG PROBELM

~You should let time be your friend, and wait. You never know, this guy could turn out to be a real jerk- and if you marry him you're looking for nothing but problems. You may think that he's the best thing in your life right now, but that could change so quickly. Just let this thing run its course and see what happens--just don't make any split-second decisions.

God Bless

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Well said. You're 13. Right now, you are so caught up in the moment, you're blind to what's actually happening. When you get to high school, you'll realize that some (most) guys aren't what they're cracked up to be. Live these days up!!! Have fun with your friends and don't get too caught up in this guy. He's not worth it.

You're only 13...that's all I have to say.

I agree that once you get to high school, guys are different. They have other things on thier minds. Once in a great while that certain guy that doesn't want to take advantage of you comes along, and that's the one that is worth it. That is the guy you should hold on to. Wait it out and see what happens. Once you reach the age of 17 or 18, you can think about serious relationships and possibly marriage after high school or college. As of right now, you're 13, focus on school, and friends. Realtionships and guys/girls people like cause a lot of drama. I've realized that all the drama can cause your grades to slip and you to get an attitude with everyone. That has just recently happened to me so i just stopped thinking about so that i can focus on my grades. Good luck.

You are 13 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you. You are way too young to be worrying about marriage. I am 15 & I had a guy propose to me & I thought that I was too young..therefore you should definitely think that you are. You will meet many more guys.. have your heart broken many times.. but eventually you will find the one that you are meant to be with. But not at this age. You need to worry about stuff that really matters. Boys come and go.. trust me, You'll find another one.

um, your 13 and youre thinking about marrige? Now thats just plain and simply crazy. No way youre going to be with him when you grow old.

Drop it

take sunnys advice
its a risk thats definetly not worth it
im almost positive that you will regret it later in your life

If you love him, you can wait a few years, until you are old enough to responsibly make your decisions by yourself.

Kalika

Holy Cow.....You're only 13 girl. Slow down. I'm 16 and im not even thinking that hard about getting married. Have fun, date different guys, have a slumber party with your girlfriends, anything but get married for pete's sake!

I'm just saying slow down....from experience....I got WAY to caught up in a guy and I still cant get over him! Just go your own way. I know it will be hard...and no doubt it will hurt...and you'll cry and cry over and over again. But trust me...Its for the best...and if you can, try and stay friends.

God Bless,
!Mallory!

WOW
When I was 13 I was so scared to sit next to a boy in class yet alone thinking about getting married. heck im 18 and my heart race when Im next to some boys. You have PLENTY of time to think about boys. right now focus more on school

I agree you need to slow down and not want to grow up so fast enjoy being young dont rush so far ahead of yourself. If its meant to be it will be when you are both older

i was in the same position a month ago. this guy was black and 18 and my parents didnt want me to have anyhting to do with him and then he proposed to me and i said yes and then i had to move and he promised me that he would stay true to me and i believed him. and during spring break i surprised him by goin to his house and i walked in on him with another girl on the couch. so usually when stuff like that happens it is usually too goos to be true. if i were you i would listen to my parents cuz if you lose your parents you lose everything

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