everything i thought i knew about my friends was wrong

i need some help..... yesterday i found out that my best best friend in the world is anorexic/belimic and doin hardcore drugs like meth and ex...i mean i had suspicians but never asked. and then within about a half hour i found out that the guy i'm starting to date killed someone!!! he actually killed someone! what do i do? i'm so messed up in the head right now that i wanna climb into bed and never get out. please help me! please!!!

omg thats terrible.....I don't really know what to say thats a bad situation.....I think you should go stay with you'r family right now to make things seem "better"...

I think you really need to think about everything going on in your life. Be there for your friend, and if the guy you are starting to date really did that then maybe he's not the right person to be hanging around with. If you need someone to talk to remember your family is always there. Just don't abandon your friend, talk to her, help her. She probably really just needs someone to listen to her and care for her. Hope I helped. You can always email me if you need to talk more.

Much love, Take Care

^^ I definitely agree.. You just need to be there for your friend & show her some support and let her know that you care.. And as for the guy that you are seeing.. I don't think that would be the best thing for you to get yourself into.. Definitely not someone to bring home to meet your parents. He isn't the kind of guy that you need to be in a relationship with. But anyways.. good luck on everything & I hope things work out for the best!

^ agree

Yep. Agree ^^^

^ i agree aswell

^^^^^i agree too^^^^^

Yeah support your friend if she wants the help but as for this guy - get your head on girl leave that guy seiously!

omg...that's terrible! i agree with everyone else though. girl...DUMP HIM! he's not worth your time. um...stay there for your friend...make sure she knows your always there for her. she's going through a tough time right now and probably needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen. get some help for her if she doesn't have any right now...she may hate you for it...but which would you rather have. a live friend who's mad at you or a dead friend who you could have helped.
stay strong...
if you need to talk email me.
~*~lisa~*~